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Can't shake this feeling

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cqbee · 12/08/2023 23:18

Did anybody else here have extreme guilt when expecting their second DC?

I have a 4yo DS who is ASD. I just feel so guilty about having another child and I can't shake the feeling. My DS does not really cope well around other children, he has very little awareness of them and struggles massively socially. He plays alone most of the time, but he is happy to do so because he knows no different. He has very limited vocabulary and also struggles to communicate his needs so things are not easy.

I really feel like I am being selfish having another child. I am worried that bringing home a sibling will upset him and make things difficult. Whenever I think about how he may feel I get so upset.

Anybody any advice? Sad

OP posts:
Bluesheeps · 12/08/2023 23:46

I think people have feelings of guilt whether their first has ASD or not. You’re not alone. You’ve had 4 wonderful years just you guys, it’s going to change but he’s going to have a brother sister for life . Ain’t that great!

sarahzbaker · 13/08/2023 02:35

You never know but just enjoy. The future!

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