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MariposaKHYU · 12/08/2023 15:06

I’m in my 30’s so this may seem unreasonable.

I am the eldest of 3 sisters. My mum and dad clearly love us all and we had a lovely childhood. I get on great with both parents as does middle sister, we both have jobs, families, homes etc. Youngest sister we also get on great with, however she is horrible to
our parents.

she wont hug them or speak to them nicely and quickly gets annoyed with them and says awful things, despite this they just can’t seem to do enough for her its like they are trying to buy her love.

She has been bought cars, holidays, clothes you name it. Every year on her birthday she gets banners,balloons a professionally made cake just the full works despite being and adult and has moved out- (us 2 sisters get a card) she is a full on BRAT when she is with my parents. Us older sisters tell her so and to stop being horrible but she doesn’t care, we’ve also told parents the same.

Although its early Xmas is at my house this year, and I’ve told my sister she needs to not be an Ahole to them because its xmas and I wont have it. She’s told my parents and now they are not talking to me!! I’ve uninvited them all except my middle sister.

AIBU to be fed up on my parents treating me and my other sister like after thoughts to the golden child?

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Lyxldu · 12/08/2023 15:10

You shouldn’t have uninvited everyone!

Although I guess if they are not talking to you now, can hardly blame you! (Sounds pretty childish - and maybe a bit manipulative? - particularly as you did nothing wrong.)

She does sound spoilt, and sounds like she has an odd relationship with your parents, who are enabling her.

Why do you think she has such a hold on them?

MariposaKHYU · 12/08/2023 15:13

Sorry when I say everyone I mean my parents and my youngest sister I’ve uninvited- everyone else is welcome, I just got so annoyed and thought F this!

No idea why she has such a hold other than she is the baby, she’s always been spoilt and very rude to them, but is a great sister- we actually get on so well and she doesn’t treat me like it - I tried to stick up for my parents and somehow its my fault 🙄 My middle sister is fed up also

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