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Winniethepig · 11/08/2023 11:55

Just this....posting here for traffic

Considering leaving my partner because I do almost everything. Drop offs pick ups, dinner, shopping, listening to constant complaints about how the house is a midden. Even though it isn't, we have a cleaner once a fortnight. I fo all the washing and the get complaints when the folding isn't done instantly. Complaints about how the kids rooms are a mess even though they were playing in there 5 mins ago. Never does bath time. I do PJs, both bedtimes, and I have a full time job, take care of the kids when sick. Need to get my parents down when DH has to have them by himself.... I am so run down.

What steps do I take? This is going to get ugly.

OP posts:
ZekeZeke · 11/08/2023 11:57

DH or partner? Your post is confusing.
House in joint names, mortgage, savings, pension?

You get your ducks in a row. Financial I formation is critical.

TeaKitten · 11/08/2023 11:59

The next steps depend on your circumstances, are you married? Do you own the house etc?

Winniethepig · 11/08/2023 12:11

ZekeZeke · 11/08/2023 11:57

DH or partner? Your post is confusing.
House in joint names, mortgage, savings, pension?

You get your ducks in a row. Financial I formation is critical.

Sorry DH

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Winniethepig · 11/08/2023 12:12

TeaKitten · 11/08/2023 11:59

The next steps depend on your circumstances, are you married? Do you own the house etc?

Married, some joint savings, but he like's everything separate. As in we have joint accounts for expenses, but then everything else is separate.

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ZekeZeke · 11/08/2023 13:32

Ducks in a row.
Get details of all savings pensions etc
Is the house in joint names?
Go to a solicitor

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