My aunt and uncle live in Athens. As a child we used to fly out and visit them with my parents. Now that I've got a bit of spare cash again, I would like to go again. I saw my aunt and uncle in Birmingham recently, for a family gathering. They kept saying how I should go out and visit them in Athens for a weekend. So I said sure! I'll come, let me look at flights when I get home. My uncle kept saying how nice it would be for my new boyfriend to come (we have been together three years and live together), but my aunt wasn't there for that part of the conversation. I sent my aunt a message saying how nice it was to see them and how we would love to come and visit as offered, and gave a good array of dates to see if any of those weekends worked for them?
I got no response to the message but she has been on whatsapp. I am starting to wonder if it's because I asked to bring my boyfriend (who is black), as I have suspected in the past that she has some outdated views..
AIBU that even if she does respond, to not want to go? Because I don't feel welcome