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GP receptionist - report or let it go?

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6079SmithW · 10/08/2023 10:37

I’ve just come off the phone with the GP surgery.
I had an appointment today which due escalating problems at work I needed to move to next week. It’s for a timed (28 days) injection so it’s really not convenient to move it as I will be outside of treatment for a week, but I didn’t feel I had any choice.
(Full disclosure - I also had to ring them yesterday because I had written the appointment down on different days in two different diaries).
After changing the appointment, and presumably after she thought the call was disconnected, the receptionist said (to person unknown) “She’s a right bloody nuisance ‘6079SmithW’ with her bloody injection”, then realised and hung up.
I rang the surgery back and told her that I had her comment and she apologised. I explained that I would love to be able to drop everything and just attend but that as I work full time, I have to balance priorities. She said “Well we struggle for appointments so it’s just a good job we could for you in”. I felt that the apology wasn’t genuine and she was just trying to justify herself.
I appreciate that we’re all busy and we all have work stress etc. but AIBU to think that a GP receptionist shouldn’t be slagging off patients (within earshot of god knows who)? Furthermore would you report her or just let it go? My inclination is to leave it there, but I feel like she hasn’t taken the incident seriously and probably just slagged me off a bit more once she got off the second call !

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girlfriend44 · 11/08/2023 21:31

Blossomtoes · 11/08/2023 21:30

Doubt it. It’s more likely that OP’s notes will have a cryptic mark denoting “pain in the arse”.

They have to.investigate everything and give you a response.

Itsnotrightbutitsok · 11/08/2023 21:32

girlfriend44 · 11/08/2023 21:25

It will, she'll get told about it and hopefully she won't do it again.

But OP rang her back and she apologised.

Getting a disciplinary or getting the sack over it isn’t fair when we all vent about difficult clients/patients/customers behind their backs.

Blossomtoes · 11/08/2023 21:43

girlfriend44 · 11/08/2023 21:31

They have to.investigate everything and give you a response.

I don’t think they do. She’d probably get a meaningless response written with rolling eyes. GP surgeries have enough on their plates without dealing with petty complaints about something for which the complainant has already received an apology.

LovePoppy · 11/08/2023 22:44

Iwantcakeeveryday · 11/08/2023 18:50

I think its ridiculous how many people are saying something about you changing appointments. The receptionists are there for this purpose. Life is complex and sometimes appointments need to be changed. The issue is when patients don't inform or turn up. Having the courtesy to ring and change it is actually what they want us to do. If they complain about changing appointments, they should probably find another job. It's the literal job of a receptionist.

This is not all the receptionists usually do in the course of a day.

no reception job I have ever worked with simply what people saw me do. They were always 30 other things going on in the background that I was also responsible for.

cultureplanet · 26/10/2023 10:06

Couldn’t make your doc app today due to escalating work problems

but still time to start a very lengthy mumsnet post

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