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Tipping hairdresser after an expensive treatment.

231 replies

Bubblegum22 · 10/08/2023 09:53

I’m getting hair extensions which will cost £550, Aibu to not tip or should I be tipping 10%, which seems to be standard? Or whats an acceptable amount in your opinion?

Maintenance is circa £200 every 2 months so tips will add up over the year (if I decide to keep them in that is).

I’m not sure what the protocol is these days with more expensive treatments so would appreciate some info on other people’s tipping etiquette/or not at the hairdressers, particularly for more expensive services.
Would be great if any hairdressers here could offer some guidance on what they’d expect.

Thank you.

OP posts:
Twiglets1 · 10/08/2023 20:48

MariaVT65 · 10/08/2023 20:36

Of course i’m happy to pay for services, but I have the right to not like being ripped off, or feel like I can’t justify the cost of having my hair dried for a fortune. So no, I don’t tip an already expensive service when you’re already paying for the service itself, and certainly not going to carry out an extra task of getting cash out for said tip. It’s not hard to source, but it’s still an extra task.

I think we've got different ideas about what constitutes a "fortune" so I'll leave it there.

heartsinvisiblefury · 10/08/2023 22:01

I got overcharged by £20 today for a trim - should have been £55, charged me £75 with no explanation or reason, when I queried it against their website price list, they refunded me but I will not return after they blatantly tried to pull a fast one.

Mamabear48 · 11/08/2023 22:13

I’ve never tipped a hairdresser and I didn’t when I got extensions either they are so expensive and to maintain!

Silvers11 · 11/08/2023 22:46

MoonsHaunted · 10/08/2023 10:03

Oh and I’d say only about 10% of people tip so it’s not standard around here (Scotland, if that makes a difference!)

I tip my hairdresser around 10% and I live in Scotland!

MidnightMeltdown · 11/08/2023 23:01

I used to tip hairdressers, but they charge so much now that I rarely do these days.

Most hairdressers I know seem to be pretty well off too.

MidnightMeltdown · 11/08/2023 23:09

MariaVT65 · 10/08/2023 15:54

Also my hairdresser doesn’t offer the tip option on the card machine and hardly anyone I know carries cash these days

These days, I don't tip unless I think they've gone the extra mile and done an exceptionally good job. If I do tip, I just ask whether I can add a tip to the card total when making the payment. They always say yes!

I wouldn't give cash. That would seem a bit patronising and weird to me somehow if I was paying by card.

Zanatdy · 11/08/2023 23:13

Bit tight never to tip, but when it’s expensive I wouldn’t do 10%

dietcokelime66 · 11/08/2023 23:18

I tip

MidnightMeltdown · 11/08/2023 23:19

Twiglets1 · 10/08/2023 15:48

I tip my hairdresser £5 for a cut or £10 for a cut & colour which takes her longer. It’s an expensive salon so the fiver is about 10% of the cost.

I wouldn't say the £50 is particularly expensive these days. It always costs me at least £85 and I live in the north! This is why I don't usually tip.

Catza · 11/08/2023 23:23

I would base it depending on the arrangement the hairdresser has with the salon. If they are renting a chair, they keep most of their earnings so no need to tip (although nice). If they are employed, they are only getting a fraction of the money so the tip is greatly appreciated.
It is quite common in the UK to tip hairdressers and beauty therapist. But what I found when working in the salon is that far fewer people think about the assistants who shampoo hair. These girls/boys are the lowest earners in the salon and do the most gruelling work - getting you refreshments, scrubbing the floor, running around multiple hairdressers, and washing your hair. They really appreciate a couple of quid even if you decide tipping your hairdresser is unnecessary.

PurpleSproutingSomething · 11/08/2023 23:24

My hairdresser is likely to be on much more per hour than me (in a professional role)
Last cut and full head of highlights recently was £400+
I do have thick hair and it takes a few hours, but I didn't tip.

Catza · 11/08/2023 23:27

Saschka · 10/08/2023 10:12

I know a lot of people do tip their hairdressers, and I always wonder how! No tips jar or anything, and when I go to pay the receptionist always just types in the amount and hands me the card reader. The hairdresser herself has moved onto the next customer. There’s never an opportunity to tip.

Are people holding onto a tenner during the cut, and pressing it into their hairdresser’s hand when they take the cape off?

When you pay, you can give the money to the receptionist and ask them to pass it on to XYZ. Every salon I worked in kept separate named envelopes in a reception drawer where tips for individual stylists were stored.

CaramelMac · 11/08/2023 23:32

I don’t tip because even though I make the appointment in person and they can see how thick my hair is (and it is very long and thick), and even though they’ve told me they’ve got a note against my name that I’ve got very thick hair and need extra time, every single time I end up being rushed because they don’t allocate enough time.

GoodMorningHoney · 11/08/2023 23:58

I used to tip but the service alone is a lot

However - tipping the apprentice is more sensible. Apprentice wages are awful.

CherryMaDeara · 12/08/2023 00:01

You’re spending so much, I wouldn’t tip at all.

MidnightMeltdown · 12/08/2023 00:18

CaramelMac · 11/08/2023 23:32

I don’t tip because even though I make the appointment in person and they can see how thick my hair is (and it is very long and thick), and even though they’ve told me they’ve got a note against my name that I’ve got very thick hair and need extra time, every single time I end up being rushed because they don’t allocate enough time.

My hairdressers charge extra for thick hair which seems a bit of a cheek.

I kind of see the point that it may take them longer to cut thicker hair, but at the same time, it seems like a form of discrimination. Can you imagine the uproar if fat people were charged extra for clothes in larger sizes because they use more material?

Mothership4two · 12/08/2023 03:43

I always used to tip (except if the hairdresser was the salon owner) as does my Mum, but it has become so expensive nowadays that I don't anymore; my payment goes straight to my hairdresser. But if one of the younger women or man wash my hair (assume they are apprentices) then I tip them.

Imisssleep2 · 12/08/2023 06:07

On that sort of treatment I would tip but for just a cut , I round up to the nearest note value, with a bit extra just before xmas

MariaVT65 · 12/08/2023 06:13

Zanatdy · 11/08/2023 23:13

Bit tight never to tip, but when it’s expensive I wouldn’t do 10%

Why is it tight though? You’re already paying for the actual service itself, which is now incredibly expensive. Many many hairdressers are quite well off. For those on MW, there are so mang other professions in this country that are also on MW but don’t get tipped.

daisychain01 · 12/08/2023 06:20

I have always given my hairdresser £3 and the trainee who washes my hair £1. Every little helps. I give it in cash and the salon manager notes down who gets what tip, so I know they treat their stylists fairly. I get a nice cappuccino and head massage all-in with the price so it's a lovely pampering experience

BarbaraofSeville · 12/08/2023 06:36

Well of course 'every little helps' and 'people appreciate tips' but why do only some low paid workers get tips while others in similar jobs with similar pay don't?

That's what no-one can explain.

The80sThe80s · 12/08/2023 06:39

I stopped tipping - hairdressing is an expensive service now and most hairdressers earn extremely well.

luw7797 · 12/08/2023 06:41

I would tip the salon I got my eyelash extensions at well over 10% every appointment (eg rounding £32 infills up to £40), I had to cancel an appointment last minute as my daughter was suddenly taken ill and they told me that not only were they keeping my deposit (fair enough), but they expected me to pay for the rest of the appointment!! I’d been going to this salon every two/three weeks for over six months, never missed an appointment before. Fair to say I never went back and found a new salon.
I’d say don’t bother tipping honestly, from my experience it isn’t particularly appreciated and doesn’t get you better service.

pimplebum · 12/08/2023 06:45

I hate tipping so awkward
Why hairdressers, waitress and taxi drivers but not podiatrist, nurses, or train driver???

daisychain01 · 12/08/2023 06:46

BarbaraofSeville · 12/08/2023 06:36

Well of course 'every little helps' and 'people appreciate tips' but why do only some low paid workers get tips while others in similar jobs with similar pay don't?

That's what no-one can explain.

There's no need to have to explain or justify the tip. It isn't the law.

i enjoy a cordial relationship with the person who does my hair, and I decide to give them a few quid extra, as a gesture of thanks - my money my choice.

i don't have a personal rapport with someone in Tesco or the bank, and the fact they put my shopping through the till which takes them about a minute isn't sufficiently meaningful to say here's £3 for you. But I'm always pleasant and give them the time of day while they're scanning my potatoes and washing up liquid.

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