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Opened one of our boxes after a move abroad aanndd..

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BadLuck2023 · 10/08/2023 04:59

Found a bloody roach! It's shat all over the paper wrapping our belongings and honestly made me feel ill! (I've got a phobia of them).

I ran to grab the bug spray but now I can't find the bloody thing. Aibu to ask of ways I can convince DH to help me empty the boxes 😇

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SockGoddess · 10/08/2023 13:50

See I'm not bothered by that prawn thing at all. To me that looks like a cricket and just isn't scary. But the cockroach picture someone posted really made my skin crawl and made me want to cry. Ugh ugh it's something about the legs, flat back and hairiness. <wail>

TokyoStories · 10/08/2023 14:08

I feel chilled to the bone after reading this thread. I'm sitting here shuddering.

I had a cockroach under my bed in France once. It didn't like being zapped with one of those electrified tennis racquets.

I've never seen one in the UK. Moths are at the top of my fear hierarchy, followed by fat spiders. A few years ago I spotted a large moth on my living room wall. I instinctively gathered all my things, sealed off the room and didn't re-enter until the following day, which was difficult as my kitchen adjoins my living room. I was paranoid for ages afterwards.

My cat has caught a few spiders but he gets bored with them quickly and is easily distracted. He seems to keep them at bay at least. Before I got him I trapped an enormous spider in a pyrex dish. I hate killing things so I shuffled a chopping board under it and put it outside, but didn't dare lift the dish in case it found its way back in. I started to feel bad for it so I very carefully slid a leaf with a caterpillar on it under the dish... the bloody thing leapt for it! In the end my boyfriend at the time helped me to walk it down the road and release it.

Penguinsmum · 10/08/2023 14:11

When I was in India my boob felt a bit itchy at work, then I got home and took my bra off and a dead cockroach fell out!!! 😃

Hecatoncheires · 10/08/2023 14:18

Penguinsmum · 10/08/2023 14:11

When I was in India my boob felt a bit itchy at work, then I got home and took my bra off and a dead cockroach fell out!!! 😃

😆 and also 😱

SoupDragon · 10/08/2023 14:27

Kotaku23 · 10/08/2023 10:39

We get them in NZ too!

Gisborne Cockroaches (not just in Gisborne) are up to 45mm long and are in our wood pile, hide under the BBQ cover and come into the housatat times too. I'm okay with them and just scoop up with a glass and chuck back outside but my ds freaks out a bit.

However, having stayed in a village in Samoa all the bugs there were huge (and we couldn't leave food out overnight or it was full of holes/infested). Apparently PNG is even worse but not on my list of travel destinations.

I read that as 45cm at first... 😂😂

Fivecluckyhens · 10/08/2023 14:57

My daughter used to breed Madagascan hissing cockroaches and had about 80 at one point. One evening I awoke to the sound of an odd noise and the cats playing on the stairs. At first I thought that the funny noise was a child’s toy making the kind of noise it does when the battery is going flat. I got up to find a large roach had escaped and the cat was playing with it. The noise was coming from the roach who was trying to defend itself.

OrangeBlossomsinthesun · 10/08/2023 15:00

Devilsmommy · 10/08/2023 13:22

Actually you're not supposed to squash them as it does release the eggs thereby spreading them 😕

I lived in an infested house years ago in Spain and had the fumigator out a lot and since then have fumigated every year wherever I live. I aksed the fumigator I always used about this and he said it is not true.

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 10/08/2023 15:55

Has anyone seen the King Kong Movie with Adrien Brodu when they go to that conveniently undiscovered island and the scene where they basically become roach food?!!! This thread is giving me flashbacks to that!!!

tellmewhentheLangshiplandscoz · 10/08/2023 15:56

Penguinsmum · 10/08/2023 14:11

When I was in India my boob felt a bit itchy at work, then I got home and took my bra off and a dead cockroach fell out!!! 😃

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Just horrible

Cherrysoup · 10/08/2023 16:08

I’d been in Arizona, drove a couple of hundred miles away and found a scorpion in my suitcase at the next stop!

There were cockroaches in my student flat in Spain, it was my first encounter with them. They stink!

AskNotForWhomTheBellCurves · 10/08/2023 16:31

I'm also somewhat phobic of cockroaches, but living in a tropical country I've more or less got used to seeing them outside. Only had one get inside the apartment once so far, thank fuck, but it was a HUGE fucker - luckily it was on the curtain in front of a sliding door and I managed to fling it out at great velocity. I've flatshared with lizards here a few times and I suspect that helps!

I'd never heard that about spreading the eggs around, but I hate the idea of stamping on them anyway - first the crunch (Envy) and second the idea of having to sweep up bits of squished cockroach afterwards (EnvyEnvyEnvy) No thank you.

OrangeBlossomsinthesun · 10/08/2023 17:00

Cherrysoup · 10/08/2023 16:08

I’d been in Arizona, drove a couple of hundred miles away and found a scorpion in my suitcase at the next stop!

There were cockroaches in my student flat in Spain, it was my first encounter with them. They stink!

I have never heard of smelly cockroaches!

thenightsky · 10/08/2023 17:03

They have a definite 'roachie' smell.

tankcrossing · 10/08/2023 22:31

KimberleyClark · 10/08/2023 10:26

Visited Australia earlier in the year but thankfully did not see any really alarming creepy crawlies!

Kung Fu Wtf GIF by A24

Maybe not, but, they could definitely see you

polkadotdalmation · 11/08/2023 14:55

I have lived in the Uk for over 40 years and never seen a cockroach or a bedbug. Have had an infestation of weevils thanks to not freezing my flour.

icclemunchy · 11/08/2023 19:03

We have a few diff types in the UK most common is the German cockroach. They're only little and like warm dark spaces (like behind the fridge) if you live near a HMO or in a flat above a shop in London chances are someone close by has an infestation. You can spray for them but they're hardy little fuckers. A poison that distrups growth works best alongside good housekeeping but once they're in any form of attached property they're damn near impossible to get rid of completely.

Teenagehorrorbag · 11/08/2023 22:05

When I was a child I lived in Singapore from age 6 to 7. An abiding memory is that there must have been a cockroach 'season' - and at one stage the path to my school was literally covered completely with a carpet of cockroaches. It was a bit crunchy but we just had to run over them to get to the classroom.

(Similar with giant red ants - we used to run through those nests barefoot in the garden and as long as you were quick you were fine).

I don't remember cockroaches in the house - it was just on that path and only at one point in the season. Pretty yuck - but you just get on with it.

OrangeBlossomsinthesun · 11/08/2023 22:20

Teenagehorrorbag · 11/08/2023 22:05

When I was a child I lived in Singapore from age 6 to 7. An abiding memory is that there must have been a cockroach 'season' - and at one stage the path to my school was literally covered completely with a carpet of cockroaches. It was a bit crunchy but we just had to run over them to get to the classroom.

(Similar with giant red ants - we used to run through those nests barefoot in the garden and as long as you were quick you were fine).

I don't remember cockroaches in the house - it was just on that path and only at one point in the season. Pretty yuck - but you just get on with it.

Maybe they were fumigating? In Spain you sometimes get that if they fumigate, especially if it's an área where there's a nest or a lot of them, they try to flee the poison.

Teenagehorrorbag · 11/08/2023 22:27

OrangeBlossomsinthesun · 11/08/2023 22:20

Maybe they were fumigating? In Spain you sometimes get that if they fumigate, especially if it's an área where there's a nest or a lot of them, they try to flee the poison.

Oh maybe, I have no idea and didn't question it at the time, just can still picture that carpet of bugs from 1971 or 72 as if it were yesterday.....{grin]

cherrypopsicle · 11/08/2023 22:59

I am off to Australia next week. I was so excited but now I'm horrified that these are going to be crawling over me as I sleep! I fully expected spiders and snakes, but not bloody cockroaches

HangerLaneGyratorySystem · 11/08/2023 23:04

See this is why you should NEVER leave the country.

BadLuck2023 · 12/08/2023 00:44

Not to fear everyone, DH is busy fixing up the walls in the bedroom and moving the heavier furniture into place with the help of a neighbour!

I'm glad I'm not the only one who finds the buggers absolutely insidious

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