I do agency work, I'd been going to a place for a few weeks and a lady there seemed quite nice, smiling and she was helpful. She could be a bit stern at times but not towards me. Didn't really get to know her but never had any issue with her.
I went back there the other day for the first time in 8 months. I saw that it was sort of a forced, unenthusiastic smile from her, and then when I left the room I actually heard her say to her colleague 'Why is she here?"
The colleague is always nice to me and explained to this lady why I was there. I peeked round the corner and the woman looked really peed off.
I was baffled really, I can't think of anything I'd done last time to offend her, and surely nothing that she'd still be thinking of 8 months later! I was shocked in the change in demeanour tbh. I can't think of any reason why.
Totally separate issue, I'm trying to make new friends. Tried meetup groups and online, found a lady who lives in the local area. Great, she seemed keen to meet up for a walk. I suggested a date and time as she told me she was very flexible, then suddenly she's not sure she can make it as she's not feeling well the day before. Hmm, maybe I'm just cynical but I've seen this a few times. If she is genuinely ill I apologise but I am slightly skeptical. I wonder if it's more not wanting to meet for whatever reason. I mean onto the next one if not. She seemed very keen then suddenly not. Also taking a very long time to reply.
So sometimes I just struggle to get people!