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Fun police @ Music Festival. Full of rules!

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Exhippy · 09/08/2023 18:44

Me and my family (UK) have been going to a few weekend music festivals for years now and I’m starting to feel a bit irked by all of their rules.

This year we’ve received endless updates prior to arriving at the festivals about new rules concerning a full glitter ban, all the food vendors will be plant based food only (massive bummer), keep cups only or if you forget these and want to buy a drink on site you must buy one of their £10 keep cups £30 for whole family!

And so on.

Last year, DH finally found a stand that was selling canned drinks and bought one as he was really thirsty, only to be told that they had just noticed the drink was made by the Coca Cola company and that he would not be allowed to sell it. They said they’d take it back and destroy it! 🙄

What happened to the sensibilities of old school hippies- just go with the flow, let your hair down and try your best but mainly have fun- chill out?

Everyone seems so militant now.

This new breed of hippy may as well be evangelical Christians!

OP posts:
Exhippy · 09/08/2023 19:32

WeWereInParis · 09/08/2023 19:30

Last year, DH finally found a stand that was selling canned drinks and bought one as he was really thirsty, only to be told that they had just noticed the drink was made by the Coca Cola company and that he would not be allowed to sell it. They said they’d take it back and destroy it!

I'm not sure I understand. Your DH went to buy a drink from a stand, and then the person on the stand selling it said "oh sorry, just noticed this is made by Coca Cola and I can't sell it"? Why was it on the stand?

Yes that is exactly what happened.
we didn’t question it because by that time we were on our 5th food place in search of a simple drink and were incredulous.
No cash allowed either.

OP posts:
Sparklesocks · 09/08/2023 19:33

Which one is this?

Ragwort · 09/08/2023 19:34

I hope the rules including clearing up ... looking at festival sites after the festival has ended I am absolutely shocked at the amount of litter, discarded tents and worse left behind.

Hufflepods · 09/08/2023 19:34

Exhippy · 09/08/2023 19:30

Maybe I’ve just grown out of it all.
Where festivals used to feel utopian to me they now feel average as an experience.
I’m more in awe of huge natural beauty spots and can seriously feel like I’m high if I immerse myself in mountains or forests or waterfalls.
I’m probably just getting old!

So do that. No one is forcing you to attend festivals, which are ultimately and always have been an economic exercise. Perhaps when you were younger and more naive you were obvious to that.
No one that really ties into your OP though.
First you’re a lazy consumerist who just wants coke and now you get high off mountains?

DaisyAndDonaldDuck · 09/08/2023 19:36

What a load of bollocks. Nothing wrong with glitter, and I would be insisting on a full refund if it was all plant based. I wouldn’t be putting up with that bullshit.

ShirleyPhallus · 09/08/2023 19:38

DaisyAndDonaldDuck · 09/08/2023 19:36

What a load of bollocks. Nothing wrong with glitter, and I would be insisting on a full refund if it was all plant based. I wouldn’t be putting up with that bullshit.

🤣sure

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 19:42

DaisyAndDonaldDuck · 09/08/2023 19:36

What a load of bollocks. Nothing wrong with glitter, and I would be insisting on a full refund if it was all plant based. I wouldn’t be putting up with that bullshit.

There is something wrong with glitter - it is just very small plastic litter. It gets into the soil, water and food chain.

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 19:43

Ragwort · 09/08/2023 19:34

I hope the rules including clearing up ... looking at festival sites after the festival has ended I am absolutely shocked at the amount of litter, discarded tents and worse left behind.

The staff clean up. The rubbosh doesn't get left there forever, just for one day whilst it is cleared up. The tents are donated from many festivals.

I don't agree with leaving tents behind, but the images you see in the Daily Mail are just designed to provoke outrage.

Octonaut4Life · 09/08/2023 19:53

The plant based thing is great in theory unless you're someone with severe food intolerances like my husband, for whom meat and dairy are actually some of the safest food groups and vegan stuff is a complete minefield. If that's not advertised at the time of booking I agree that's a big problem!

pinkstinks · 09/08/2023 19:53

Shambala has been meat and fish free since 2016 soo…

queenMab99 · 09/08/2023 19:54

I went to the Lincoln folk festival in 1971, the lineup was spectacular, James Taylor, Ralph McKellen, Byrds, Sandy Denny etc. It was the biggest folk festival ever held. I remember lying on the ground looking up at the stars, waiting for James Taylor to perform. Tickets were £2 for the day. Sounds like heaven, those were the days!

Well actually we could have done with the fun police, as the night got chilly, some idiots pulled the wooden toilet shacks down and built a bonfire...............

queenMab99 · 09/08/2023 19:56

Typo obviously Ralph Mctell. 🙄

DanceWithTheBigBoysAgain · 09/08/2023 20:01

Friggingfrog · 09/08/2023 19:11

I understand about the cup and no glitter thing. Not sure why some stands couldn’t sell some meat or dairy- I also don’t like mega processed food as so many plant based alternatives are. A mix would be nice. Also don’t get the Coca Cola thing.

I hear this a lot on MN, but IME the kind of vegan street food you get at festivals tends to be perfectly normal food cooked from scratch, as seen in home kitchens around the world: vegetable biryani, falafel wraps, Korean fried tofu, sweet potato katsu curry, black bean and plantain arepas etc etc .

Give or take some fake cheese on pizzas (yuk) I can't remember the last time I saw any of these mythical hyper-processed vegan foods at a food stall.

NiceViper · 09/08/2023 20:01

I think plastic glitter should be outright banned.

Reusable cups only sounds sensible.

Lots of events are aiming to be plastic free and I think that's wholly laudable

Vegan catering should have been mentioned at sign up, but I can't get that worked up about it because it won't harm anyone to do without animal products for a few days (if this is however medically unsuitable because of eg allergies then you need to get on to the organisers asap for permission to bring your own food)

I hope they are also promoting the use of public transport if feasible, otherwise car-sharing

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 09/08/2023 20:03

What’s fun about putting tiny shiny pieces of plastic into an animal’s bloodstream ?

CalistoNoSolo · 09/08/2023 20:04

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 19:43

The staff clean up. The rubbosh doesn't get left there forever, just for one day whilst it is cleared up. The tents are donated from many festivals.

I don't agree with leaving tents behind, but the images you see in the Daily Mail are just designed to provoke outrage.

You've never been on the train going past the reading festival site when everyone clears off then. It looks like a landfill site.

Theimpossiblegirl · 09/08/2023 20:09

And then it gets cleaned up.

Serendipitoushedgehog · 09/08/2023 20:22

That’s a shame, there are some amazing burger stands at festivals! Mmm

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 20:29

CalistoNoSolo · 09/08/2023 20:04

You've never been on the train going past the reading festival site when everyone clears off then. It looks like a landfill site.

It gets cleaned up. It doesn't get left forever.

CalistoNoSolo · 09/08/2023 20:56

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 20:29

It gets cleaned up. It doesn't get left forever.

You said the DM pics were to provoke outrage, implying that they made it look far worse than the reality. But the reality is that it looks like a landfill site, and the waste, single use tents, vast clean up is the antithesis of sustainable. Whether or not it gets cleaned up afterwards is irrelevant.

10HailMarys · 09/08/2023 21:03

Exhippy · 09/08/2023 19:30

Maybe I’ve just grown out of it all.
Where festivals used to feel utopian to me they now feel average as an experience.
I’m more in awe of huge natural beauty spots and can seriously feel like I’m high if I immerse myself in mountains or forests or waterfalls.
I’m probably just getting old!

So you like to immerse yourself in the natural world, but don’t actually want to do anything to preserve it? You don’t sound terribly bright, to be honest.

Wheresthesummer · 09/08/2023 22:08

Exhippy · 09/08/2023 19:30

Maybe I’ve just grown out of it all.
Where festivals used to feel utopian to me they now feel average as an experience.
I’m more in awe of huge natural beauty spots and can seriously feel like I’m high if I immerse myself in mountains or forests or waterfalls.
I’m probably just getting old!

To be fair I totally get this. I will only really go to a handful of smaller ones now - I used to love big ones but hate the thought now.

calmcoco · 09/08/2023 22:18

CalistoNoSolo · 09/08/2023 20:56

You said the DM pics were to provoke outrage, implying that they made it look far worse than the reality. But the reality is that it looks like a landfill site, and the waste, single use tents, vast clean up is the antithesis of sustainable. Whether or not it gets cleaned up afterwards is irrelevant.

Do you think household consumption in the average UK street is sustainable? Or what gets thrown away from pubs?

The fact it goes on the floor then in a bin doesn't make it inherently less sustainable.

As I said I don't agree with tents being thrown away, but it's such a dot compared to e.g. fashion waste.

It's just outrage because of the photo.

studentgrant · 09/08/2023 22:24

My young adults go to festivals often, and have for years. They haven't complained.

TrickorTreacle · 09/08/2023 22:33

Rogue1001MNer · 09/08/2023 19:07

Name the festival @Exhippy

Name it, @Exhippy , like a few of us have already asked.

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