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Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

How have people annoyed you this week?

35 replies

Gummybears6 · 05/08/2023 13:02

My first name isn't that common here. It's not unheard of, it's just not incredibly common but I occasionally meet other women/girls with it. It doesn't have any obvious links to another county but I suppose some people might think it's exotic.
I work in social care, and I had a family member of a resident ask me my name. I told her my first name and she said 'oh that's nice and where are you from?"
I said "I'm local to here really, I'm from round here.'
She then said 'Yeah but where are you really from?"
I said again "I am from this area"
Because my first name is one that's possibly found in other countries, she's made some random assumption that I'm not from this country, even though I was speaking to her with a local accent.

A nurse attended and left a mess of rubbish, when I arrived she was just leaving, and she said to me "Can you clear all that please?"
She could've taken it with her on her way out, it would've taken her a second. I guess she thought because I'm 'just' a carer those sorts of jobs are below her pay scale and she can assign them to me. She was the one who made all the mess. Wish I'd said no really.

And once again, I've had people let me know I'm a roundabout way they think I'm old. A 22 year old colleague asked me my age, I said 32.
She erupted into "Omggg! Whatt?! I can't believe it!! You look young!!"
Well, that's because I am quite young. I guess some people think that you shrivel up the day you turn 30.
I'm also frequently told I 'look foreign' because I've got dark hair and eyes.
That's about it from me I think!

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DrinkingAllTheGin · 05/08/2023 22:14

I needed to put air in my car tyres today
Stopped at a service station to do so and three was a car parked over the line of the spacereserved for using the air machine so that even my tiny car couldn't squeeze in. I parked up and got out to look at the machine and they didn't take the hint.
I should have said something but didn't.
Went to another petrol station. The machine there was cheaper sonit was a win really.

dogsweetdog · 05/08/2023 22:17

DH by putting the knives and forks the wrong way up in the drawer when he unloaded the dishwasher. WHY??

mumda · 05/08/2023 22:19

The eejit who demanded the meeting be at 2pm didn't turn up until 2.39pm by which time we were just finishing up. They do always get finished quicker without this person though.

BeyondMyWits · 05/08/2023 22:20

I lost a stone and a half over the past 2 months. No one has noticed. I lose the weight of 20 cans of beans... Nada... I'm 59. I am invisible.

(And annoyed... well, maybe just mildly peeved... if there is an annoyance scale?)

Arrgghhdecisions · 05/08/2023 22:25

Ooooo

Literally everyone at work this week. Too many to mention.

Today some little shit in the house behind decided to hop his shed into my garden to retrieve his ball (same one he'd been smacking against the fence all afternoon.) I was pretty miffed as it was. His sudden arrival in the garden then startled my small child who started crying and wouldn't finish her dinner. Sigh. Took great pleasure however when I went out to the garage this evening and found the ball back in my garden. We have a new ball now. 🤣

DrinkingAllTheGin · 05/08/2023 22:25

Congratulations @BeyondMyWits that's amazing

BeyondMyWits · 05/08/2023 22:28

DrinkingAllTheGin · 05/08/2023 22:25

Congratulations @BeyondMyWits that's amazing

God, I love mumsnet... thank you.

PatMustardsBigTool · 05/08/2023 22:42

I took the DC out all day yesterday, we left the house at 9 and returned at 5:30. We had a lovely time and DH had the whole day to himself to do as he wished. He chose to work on the garden for most of the time.

Today I needed to do some WORK, so DH needed to take the DC out so I could get on with it without interruption (the 2 year old especially isn't keen on giving me space!). They finally left the house at 12:30(!) and were home at 2:10. WTF. Kids were in and out of the room/making a racket downstairs until I gave up at 4pm and came downstairs. "Did you get everything done?" Knob. Actual colossal knob.

Truemilk · 05/08/2023 22:43

I was driving the 30mph in a 30, man in a range rover behind me literally attached to the back of my car as he wanted to go faster, he was purposely swerving left and right to get my attention. I ignored him, carried on going 30. He was driving really aggressively for no reason.

I'm absolutely dreading the drop to 20mph in September, people are going to be even more frustrated with each other

PleaseGiveMeBackMySummer · 05/08/2023 22:47

ARGH! I have one. A couple of my neighbours (opposite) keep parking their motor vehicles virtually opposite my drive. One's a big blue van and one's a big SUV. The big blue van has a four vehicle driveway, yet there is only one other car on there. The SUV has a two vehicle driveway. NO cars on there. Just the SUV on the road, and another car belonging to her partner, 10 feet or so behind it. This makes another neighbour struggle to get in and out of their driveway! WHY DO YOU NOT USE YOUR DRIVEWAY?!!!!!!!!!!! Angry

To save 7 to 10 seconds each time they come in and to ensure they can get straight off next time they go out, they make getting into (and out of) our OWN driveway sooo difficult for me and DH. We find it almost impossible sometimes to get into the driveway. (And out of the driveway.) I am SICK of it. It's such a relief when we come back from somewhere and one of them is OUT, because it makes it a BIT less difficult. Still difficult though!

We have got just one little car between us - and we always park on the driveway. We cause no trouble to anyone and never obstruct anyone. Yet people don't give a shit about making life difficult for us. WTF? Confused Anyone who has a driveway and doesn't park on it, is a massive twat IMO.

I've been tempted to park on the road myself before, (And have done several times) but when me DH have done it, they still park their stupid big car and stupid big van there. And there's such a tiny tiny little gap for the traffic to come through, that I'm paranoid our car's going to get hit. So I just end up putting it back on the drive. I'm so fucking sick of them.

Why does their need for an easier life trump my need to get in and out of my OWN driveway properly? This fills me with so much rage I could scream! Angry Every house we have lived in with a driveway (which has been the last four houses over the last 28 years,) there has always been some cockwomble who parks opposite us, making it hard for us to get in and out of our drive, even when they've got their own driveway. We just seem to attract them! Confused

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