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That chocolate penises aren’t for children?!!

69 replies

AppleDeeApp · 05/08/2023 09:25

Just seen a reel on insta of an influencer knocking on friends’ doors and then shoving a chocolate penis in each friend’s mouth. It’s a promotion for a company that makes realistic looking chocolate penises I guess.

Behind the last door is her two young children and the penis for them has fake cum on the end of it. What on earth is wrong with people?!

The comments are full of followers saying how hilarious it is.

Or am I just old and boring?

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EnjoyingTheSilence · 05/08/2023 10:25

Grim.

Its not hilarious for adults but for children it’s even worse

VeronicasCloset · 05/08/2023 10:26

I’ve seen the same thing I think OP. Tbf the boys aren’t fed anything at the end, but agree it’s poor taste.

IncognitoMam · 05/08/2023 10:28

UncertainSmiler · 05/08/2023 10:24

‘Influencers’ all need to be fired into the sun.

This ^^😂

AnSolas · 05/08/2023 10:29

AppleDeeApp · 05/08/2023 09:25

Just seen a reel on insta of an influencer knocking on friends’ doors and then shoving a chocolate penis in each friend’s mouth. It’s a promotion for a company that makes realistic looking chocolate penises I guess.

Behind the last door is her two young children and the penis for them has fake cum on the end of it. What on earth is wrong with people?!

The comments are full of followers saying how hilarious it is.

Or am I just old and boring?

Its called the production of child abuse images.

"Kiddy porn" made by cooool mommy

So the chocolate company are commissioning kiddy porn ads

itsmyp4rty · 05/08/2023 10:31

Vile.

RocketIceLollie · 05/08/2023 10:33

Yeah that's really quite wrong really and just plain immature to think it's hilarious even. Childish people raising children. What could go wrong...

Createausername1970 · 05/08/2023 10:34

Not for kids, no. A chocolate or rock willy is a bit of harmless confectionery amongst friends you know well and doesn't offend me in that scenario. Outside of that, it gets complicated. Definitely wouldn't want one from my FIL, for example.

It does remind me of a incident on a hen night. We were in a restaurant and the other large group was a stag party. The hen had arranged a cake in the shape of a cock and balls. The stag group were initially laughing and making the usual comments...... until she picked up a knife, carefully placed it in the tip of the cock and cut the cake straight down the full length. Every stag at the other table were either squirming in their seats or covering their eyes. It made us laugh.

Rockbird · 05/08/2023 10:36

It's disgusting but unfortunately I'm not surprised by anything anymore. Plenty of people have shown recently that safeguarding children is bottom of their list of concerns, especially when it gets in the way of me me me.

QueenoftheNimbleFlyingCat · 05/08/2023 10:38

Penis shaped confectionery is weird but harmless if the recipient is an adult and you know wouldn't be offended. However, giving these to children is absolutely disgusting and verging on abuse in my mind.

IncognitoMam · 05/08/2023 10:45

It is abuse

QueenoftheNimbleFlyingCat · 05/08/2023 10:54

IncognitoMam · 05/08/2023 10:45

It is abuse

Well yes I think it is, would social services though? I'm not sure what the threshold is. I absolutely agree that it is though.

IMustDoMoreExercise · 05/08/2023 10:58

It is similar to the videos where parents terrify their kids for views.

I think the SM companies need to be forced to stop people putting their kids on SM.

MaryJanesonabreak · 05/08/2023 10:59

JustaChristian · 05/08/2023 09:52

that is your your western civilisation.

Christians are up to their necks in all kinds of horrific cultures from all over the world including the West.

Emmamoo89 · 05/08/2023 11:00

That's fucked up

FilthyforFirth · 05/08/2023 11:00

That is horrific. Who is it?

greenteaandmarshmallows · 05/08/2023 11:01

That's a crime surely? You can't go shoving chocolate penis's in people's mouths without consent.

BCBird · 05/08/2023 11:04

Foul. It certainly doesn't represent most people's idea of western culture

Crunchiethatfridayfeeling · 05/08/2023 11:10

I wonder how the friends felt. If someone knocked on my door then shoved a chocolate dick in my mouth I would be absolutely mortified and then I'd be upset - to be filmed while it happened would make it worse.
Luckily no friends of mine would do this as they aren't unhinged and batshit for likes on the Internet.
As for the doing it to children, it is absolutely abuse. Children shouldn't be oresented with and then have to run from a Penis, chocolate or not.

This is my take on it going from the op, I've not actually seen the video.

Simonjt · 05/08/2023 11:11

You can report innapropriate content on instagram, however I’m not sure how useful it actually is.

Itsnotrightbutitsok · 05/08/2023 11:33

I’m not old but I still think it’s ridiculous.

Some people will literally do anything for likes off complete strangers on the internet.

AnSolas · 05/08/2023 11:34

Simonjt · 05/08/2023 11:11

You can report innapropriate content on instagram, however I’m not sure how useful it actually is.

Quote the two UK acts

https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/indecent-and-prohibited-images-children

Indecent Images of Children– The OffencesThe two main offence creating provisions are:

  • Section 1 of the Protection of Children Act 1978 (PCA 1978); and
  • Section 160 of the Criminal Justice Act 1988 (CJA 1988)
Common ElementsBoth provisions create offences in respect of:
  • indecent
  • photographs or pseudo-photographs of
  • A child.

An Irish one as a lot of media have their EU Hq in Ireland
Child Trafficking and Pornography Act, 1998
https://www.irishstatutebook.ie/eli/1998/act/22/section/2/enacted/en/html#sec2

Criminal Law (Sexual Offences) Act 2017
https://www.irishstatutebook.ie/eli/2017/act/2/section/13/enacted/en/html#sec13

Indecent and Prohibited Images of Children | The Crown Prosecution Service

https://www.cps.gov.uk/legal-guidance/indecent-and-prohibited-images-children

Fizbosshoes · 05/08/2023 11:38

I saw online a party where the main cake, and all the small cupcakes were penis themed. There were young children there and I thought it was a bit weird but then wondered if I was being prudish.

MillicentTrilbyHiggins · 05/08/2023 11:39

JustaChristian · 05/08/2023 09:52

that is your your western civilisation.

What?

KimberleyClark · 05/08/2023 11:39

Maray1967 · 05/08/2023 09:47

Truly awful. I’ve seen these in Bruges - not exactly a souvenir gift for children.

Bloody hell. I went to Bruges many years ago, was a classy joint back then. Now it sounds like Blackpool.

HopityHope · 05/08/2023 11:42

AnSolas · 05/08/2023 10:29

Its called the production of child abuse images.

"Kiddy porn" made by cooool mommy

So the chocolate company are commissioning kiddy porn ads

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I just wanted to correct the language as there is no such thing as “kiddy porn” or “child porn” it’s just called child sexual assault material. Referring to it as porn normalises it slightly or implies the children partake as in filming adult porn and down plays it. Some news reporting still refers to it as “kiddy or child porn” but mainstream is catching up now.