Currently on a holiday with my mother. We dont have the best mother and daughter relationship but I’ve learned not to react to her words and behaviour and to just ignore it so there can be peace and it’s been working really well until… She constantly tells my son to shut up. I told her she is being rude and to stop. For example my son is playing in the garden and she says “stop and still down” “shut up” I told her he is 5 and playing nicely by himself why should he stop and still down and be a robot on a chair. We went to a restaurant and she told him yet again to shut up I left crying and made the mistake to tell her how she makes me feel and she said Im making something out of nothing and to stop making a scene. today at the beach she dragged my son by the hand and people saw her. I told her this is not ok at all. She sat my son down and said she brought peaches and he has to eat them he said he wont eat the peaches because he isn’t hungry. I said to her just leave him if he is hungry he will help himself she said “eat or I will slap you” I said “ excuse me who are you going to slap. Are u ok in the head?” She looked at me and left. this evening she came to my room to tell us to go downstairs for dinner and I refused. She said why I said because of the hand pulling and saying that she will slap him. I said u dont treat other ppls kids like that so why your own family. She said im causing a scene and she left, I gave her the opportunity to apolo And she didnt. So AIBU?