Ok so I am genuinely wanting to know whether I Abu. My partner is nearly 42 years old, never smoked apart from probably the odd social one when he was a lot younger. Recently I found a box of vapes on his desk which is set up in our kitchen/diner area. I asked him about it and he lied to my face saying he got them on a night out ages ago when he'd had a drink, but never used them. (He very rarely goes out- like 3 times a year maybe). We have a 5 year old and 3 month old baby, he is trying trying set up a business. Last few months have been hectic and hard work obviously with having a new baby and he struggles a bit with his mental health at times anyway. He exercises a lot to keep that in check. The other day I walked into the room and saw what looked like smoke going up into thr air behind his desk I was like wtf is that?! Then realised he was vaping. He immediately denied and hid it... lying to my face again! I said well either you want me to think I'm going insane or you'll admit it. We had a small argument but 5 year old and baby there so I didn't want to go to mad, and he said he didn't tell me cos I knew I wouldn't approve of it. He said he's heard it helps with stress so does it occasionally. So number 1 I'm angry he is doing it, why on earth start that at the age of 41 when you've never smoked? It's clearly not good for you! He's He's health conscious so it baffles me. Number 2, he's doing it in the house in a room the kids and I are in and out of and I'm not sure if passive vaping is harmful? He says not.... But mainly I am very upset and angry he has lied to my face. He doesn't think it's a big deal. Am I over reacting?