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It’s up to me how long I think I’ve been ttc for ??

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LastChanceForIt · 03/08/2023 17:55

Went for coffee with dsis and some mutual friends . Dsis is 27 weeks and tried for 7 months to fall pregnant.

I consider that I’ve been trying to have a baby for 2.5 years. Ttc for 12 months then had tests and investigations. At 19 months had a chemical . At 24 months had an ectopic and had to pause for 3 months due to the medication used then trying again which brings me to the 2.5 year mark.

As we were talking ( everyone knows what had happened to me) and I’d said about it getting me down now dsis pipes up that actually it’s not 2.5 years as when I had the ectopic that ‘reset the clock’ then she said she had waited 7 months and I shouldn’t make out I’ve been waiting longer than I have ??!!!
I was so upset I just walked out I can’t take much more of it and I was hurt. But am I wrong when I say 2.5 years ?

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Wenfy · 04/08/2023 01:06

I was ttc for 10 years before dd and then DS came when we weren’t trying. But I had countless miscarriages before and after dd. I’d expect a pregnant woman to be more mindful about how she speaks about miscarriages (that is what an ectopic is, the fact it’s implanted wrongly doesn’t matter).

IVFlife · 04/08/2023 01:10

Wtf

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