Declining townhouse layout?

[notintowoo]

Hello,

I have been on the council register list for about 12 years. It is just DD and I (12). Over the course of those years, we have viewed four properties. I declined two properties due to price and unsuitability and the other two properties I was outbid.

I recently received a call from the council to view a property, which was declined by the first person. I went to view the property and although the location is great (for work and DD travelling to school and not far from my parent's house) and the rent is quite decent. The townhouse layout is what is putting me off. It's a terrace conversion flat. I am on the first floor (a neighbour below but no one above me) but it has a townhouse sort of layout. I have my own entrance door, the hallway/entrance is on the ground floor, the bathroom is on the first floor. The kitchen and living room is on the second floor and the bedrooms are on the third floor.

Also, a friend recently told me that if I was to consider buying the property (which I wouldn't), it would be very difficult to sell as townhouses are unpopular.

I feel a bit disheartened to consider turning this down but I wanted to gather all of your thoughts before I speak to the council. What should I do?

I was pretty sure your DD would love it, OP!

Is it actual repairs that need doing or cosmetic? If it's repair then they should be done for you . I could be a possibility they have missed the by accident. Especially window repairs that could be a safety issue. If cosmetic then that's different.

Id agree with that. Councils want to turn things around quickly and don’t always notice everything ; especially things like window repairs that are definitely their responsibility. I was once allocated a flat where the sash windows were impossible to close. They wouldn’t have repaired them if I hadn’t let them know.

Congratulations, @notintowoo! I wish you and your DD a wonderful time in your new home, with big beams constantly on both your faces!

Thank you everyone. Our current home, including our neighbours and our local community has been our safe haven for many years. I know we are not that far away, but entering into another area, is entirely different, a new set of people, friends, different community. But we'll see how it goes. Change is always good.

I think what sealed the deal was when I was downstairs having a good inspection of the flat. I called DD's name, who was upstairs in her new room, but she didn't answer. I went upstairs and found her on the floor, and she was sleeping. It looked like she was very comfortable! Thank

Op have you already moved in ? Dd bed in her new room etc?

Is your daughter happy to be in the single bedroom or have you been really kind and let her have your double bedroom? When are you moving in? So excited for you!

So happy for you both, OP. Very best wishes

Fantastic OP.

It’s a great opportunity to decorate how you like and have sone bonding time with DD choosing things.

Also with all the extra space it will be easier on you both to have people round for coffee etc. I’m sure it won’t take long to make friends and you’ll be closer to family which is fab

There are schemes where you can get assistance with flooring etc. Can you measure the rooms? You might be able to get off cuts cheaply from a carpet shop if they fit.

Well done OP!
I Hope you and your daughter are very happy in your new home 🏡

Tearing up here - I'm so glad, and I hope you are both very, very happy in your new home.

Just checking in, so pleased you have taken the new property, now to make it your forever home x congratulations

Oh this is brilliant op, well done! Just take it slow with the renovation, people take years doing up their own homes and that’s what this is! Have fun getting it just as you want it and good luck to you and dd.

That’s fab news congratulations 🎉 on your new home.

Why has your other thread gone? @notintowoo

Saw your other thread, don't worry they all sound like issues that can be resolved fairly easily! Worth it for security, extra room and reduced rent ❤️ will be worth it in the long run

Deletion message says HQ have concerns so looking at it behind the scenes.

Thanks but that makes no sense the threads are basically a part one and two.

Hello everyone,

I am the original poster who posted this thread.

My thread was deleted because posters on here reported this thread and had concerns about whether it was genuine- probably thought I was a troll. I am a long standing poster of Mumsnet (been here for roughly 13 years) and have been blocked by MNHQ. I complained, then it was reinstated and now I have been blocked again (had to create a new account) as I was told by MNHQ that I should lay down low, gain the trust of the Mumsnetters and stop posting about the same issues (FYI! I have difficulties with processing information!!!). I posted about a similar incident (again) and hence why I have been blocked again.

I want to say this, before I leave Mumsnet. I've had to change several information about myself, including usernames, when posting on here as I am a survivor of DV, and several of my ex's relatives use this site. If my ex knew of my plans, I will be screwed over. However, I can confirm that my overall circumstances are very indeed true (moving new home, with a teenage child).

From MMHQ, it appears that I am forced to reveal certain information about myself so that it appeases/gain other posters trust . But I will say that I will not put mine or my child's safety at risk and will change my details over and over again, because I value mine and my DC's life.

I joined Mumsnet to receive advice and support but it appears that I could only do this if my identity is compromised. Who could I complain further to about this- as this is not going nowhere with MNHQ. I am also concerned about their procedures of blocking Mums netters without notifying them first and identity risks of survivors of DV!

Over the years, I have received great advice from Mumsnet. I do not have much support outside of Mumsnet and often come here as a solace. I just want to say thank you to AIBU (even though it is meanspirited at times), the other board (which I would not state as it will be obvious) but without them, I grew confidence in supporting my DC and challenging what is right for them. Also, a huge thanks to the RELATIONSHIPS board, without you- particularly @Anyfucker, I would not have left my ex partner, if it wasn't for this board. I realised my worth and left for good. I honestly do not know how my life will turn out if I stayed.

Going forward, it appears I have to look for another online group for support. Luckily, I have joined a few Facebook groups but its not the same as MN.

Thank you everyone :)

OP: I wish you and your Dd the very best in your new home.

I do understand about name changing and changing details to maintain anonymity

Thank you @TakenRoot

There are still a few issues but it is what it is :D.

It is awful that Mumsnet could not continue to be a haven for you, OP. Very best wishes to you and DD for happiness and safety in your new house

Sorry if i seem thick. But in a nut shell have you been banned due to people reporting ? Could you tell MN what you have told us on here. Is there anyway you could send some sort of proof to mnhq (confidentialy) I think possibly mnhq may sometimes get it wrong especially if it's complicated.

Op lots of people name change on here. Surely MNHQ must know you are a long standing poster. And yes it's not unusual for people to alter the details.

I were you I'd hang around but use your new account that you've just opened.
I really do wish you well in your new house.

Absolutely understand. I change username and details frequently too. Would not want to be recognised and I don’t have DV to worry about.

Enjoy your new home

Really wishing you and your child all the absolute BEST in the future.