@Blossomtoes @XiCi
I appreciate all the advice, which I would otherwise not be able to pay for, but I think calling it madness comes from a somewhat privileged position.
Where I am, it’s cheap rent, secure, it’s my tenancy for life. I just got a new boiler, if I had to pay it would be a grand that I don’t have, then what?
This new home will need floods, fire, contents insurance (probably some insurances I'm unaware of) which is money I don’t have monthly, and I will save 0:00 on rent as it is already given to me by universal credit. I won’t have to pay rent but I also wont get my rent paid, it cancels each other out.
So if the boiler breaks in the new place once I'm moved in that’s it, I’m completely screwed with no boiler. There’s no way I'd be able to come up with a grand, ever.
If this house floods me and my kids are moved immediately to accommodation. If the house I own floods it’s a case of what I believe is a laborious and stressful process of going via insurance? And until that’s sorted we’re what? On the streets? So it’s a situation where my kids could well be taken off me as I couldn’t care for them, and that could even be permanent. I know that’s a longshot but it’s a possibility that would likely end my life due to stress.
Also where do I get the time to deal with that insurance?
Moving into that house is secure on one way but it’s also a liability in many others. In fact a house is a liability until you sell it or rent it out, and I’ve come to realise that renting it out is more hassle than it’s worth.
So it’s not madness to ask. It would be madness to make a decision without asking and since I am poor I only really have MN to ask.
And again I really appreciate people taking the time to come and offer me help. I'm hard working, not smart working, and my kids will suffer because of this so they are helping my children.