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Mumsnet fave - prams on buses!

16 replies

Averagesizedsalad · 29/07/2023 15:12

Know how people love a good prams on buses thread!

I have just returned from visiting a dear friend who has just gotten out of hospital. I took the bus to visit her, along with my 4 month DD and her pram. Usually I would babywear her, but as I was bringing food & supplies for friend, thought taking the pram was easier on this occasion. As I got on the bus, DD was a bit unsettled, so I BF her and she was happy then for the remainder of the journey. There were no other prams on the bus, nor wheelchairs, & there were several free priority seats. Towards the very end of the trip, DD started to become grouchy again, so before she started to cry, I popped her in her sling as this is the easiest way to calm her down for a nap. In my distraction of trying to calm her down, I didn't move to the door of the bus quick enough when it came to my stop. This meant another man with a pram started to get onto the bus before I could get off. No worries though, we called to the driver to wait a moment while we did some pram re-arranging so that other man with a pram could take my original spot, and I could squeeze past to get off. As I got off, some crabby woman loudly stated "Oh for goodness sake, thank god that's over. Some of us have places to be!" 🤔 which just felt awfully necessary for what was at most, a 20 second delay. (She had also made similar comments towards another woman who took slightly longer than normal to buy her bus ticket!)

WIBU to call her a grumpy cow? I did not do this, as I would never confront someone like that, but the desire was there 😉

Plus side, the journey home was very pleasant. There were myself & 2 other older ladies on the bus who had shopping trolleys with them, we all managed to amicably manoeuvre ourselves so there was room for pram + trollies + enough space for others to get past us. DD enjoyed the attention from them interacting with her (she is premature so doesn't play with toys/reach for things yet, but very much enjoys making faces, funny noises etc)

OP posts:
bryceQ · 29/07/2023 15:16

I wouldn't even give it a second thought. Some people are just grumpy. And you can't change it. Just be quicker next time 🤷‍♀️

FionnulaTheCooler · 29/07/2023 15:16

Bit of a non-event really. That "grumpy cow" might have had things going on in her own life, or been in a rush to get somewhere and been irritated by all the faffing. It was one fairly mild comment, let it go.

DappledThings · 29/07/2023 15:18

I'd have laughed at her. People overreacting to complete non-events like a tiny delay always amuse me.

3isthemagicnumberrr · 29/07/2023 15:20

I probably would have said something….I can never think of anything witty in these situations though, so would probably have called her a grumpy cow and then regretted being quite so annoyed!

monicagellerbing · 29/07/2023 15:32

What a non event to start a thread about. You only thought 'grumpy cow' didn't say it out loud and you're asking if YABU. You're allowed to think what you want. Jeez

Weflewinstyle · 29/07/2023 16:28

Seriously op don’t navel gaze about this

yes she was grumpy

but she’ll have forgotten about it and yet you’re here writing a long post about it asking us if we thought she was grumpy!

Weflewinstyle · 29/07/2023 16:29

Plus side, the journey home was very pleasant. There were myself & 2 other older ladies on the bus who had shopping trolleys with them, we all managed to amicably manoeuvre ourselves so there was room for pram + trollies + enough space for others to get past us. DD enjoyed the attention from them interacting with her (she is premature so doesn't play with toys/reach for things yet, but very much enjoys making faces, funny noises etc)

riveting

ArmWrestlingWithChasNDave · 29/07/2023 16:31

Know how people love a good prams on buses thread!

We like a good one, yes.

PinkFrogss · 29/07/2023 16:33

Sounds like a non event. I wouldn’t waste anymore time thinking about it.

beetI · 29/07/2023 16:50

I had a man ram into my pushchair with his walker getting off the bus, bearing in mind I was stationary, and the caller me a bitch😂😂😂

Some people are just weird. This woman you encountered was grouchy to everyone. I wouldn't even think twice.

CoachBeardsJane · 29/07/2023 16:51

What a non event

Florissante · 29/07/2023 17:54

Non-event.

Toottooot · 29/07/2023 18:12

Looking for drama after a non-event. 💁🏻‍♀️

phoenixrosehere · 29/07/2023 18:22

Such a non-event that posters must say it’s a non-event. Shockingly happens on MN all the time.

Unfortunately , some people are like that, and I always find it hypocritical when they also faff about getting off the bus when they moaned about others.

The guy with the pram should have waited though before getting on. It’s not hard to see when someone is trying to move down from the outside or check with the bus driver before getting on.

ApiratesaysYarrr · 29/07/2023 20:08

It's not really anything to do with prams on buses though, as you said that the woman had made a similar comment earlier about someone (presumably without a pram) who had taken longer than expected to buy her ticket.

The grumpy woman doesn't have a thing against prams, she has a thing against people.

Trinity65 · 29/07/2023 21:09

ArmWrestlingWithChasNDave · 29/07/2023 16:31

Know how people love a good prams on buses thread!

We like a good one, yes.

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