I had my first baby back in April. I really struggled with the adjustment of becoming a mum and I did feel a little down in the dumps for a couple of months.
My best friend sent me a message a few weeks after having her to say she couldn't wait to meet her and to let her know when is best for her to come round. I said I would and sent her another message a week later to say I'd like it if she came the end of may/start of June, she said she'd check with work when she could book time off and let me know the following day. I didn't hear from her but I didn't chase her or put pressure on her to come and see us. We had exchanged messages after this but not anything to do with coming to see me and my baby and it's now been over a month since we last spoke to one another.
We have known each other for 23 years and were always close. I don't know anything about her life now except for the fact she is in a relationship that appears to be going really well. To be honest she hasn't told me much about what goes on with her for the past 2/3 years.
Obviously my days now are really busy taking care of my baby, however I often wonder if I'm being unreasonable not asking her again to come round and see us. I have initiated conversation with her previously so it isn't all on her to start a conversation but I also feel like it wouldn't hurt her to send me a message to ask if I'm ok and when would be a good time to come and see me and meet my baby - I know if it was the other way around, I would.
AIBU?