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To cut my own hair?

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AnnieKennyfanclub · 28/07/2023 19:08

I am struggling to find a hair appointment which doesn’t cost the earth that is at a time I am free.

my fancy ‘choppy Bob’ has been massacred by several hair dresser locally who only want to cut it to a graduated Bob- I have really thick hair and they never layer it enough. Then they blow dry it full of product to hide the cut till I get home…

aibu to try to cut my hair (the way I want) myself?

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bridgetreilly · 28/07/2023 19:43

It’s fine. I’ve been doing it for years. You need good mirrors and a willingness to not have perfect perfect hair, but it’s so much less hassle and saves £££.

IDontNormallySayThis · 28/07/2023 19:58

I too have cut my own hair (for at least 10 years).
Definitely don't rush the job. Maybe watch a few YouTube videos before grabbing the scissors (also make sure you have a very good pair of scissors).

FourEyesGood · 28/07/2023 20:00

I followed a Brad Mondo YouTube video (it was clearly originally posted during a Covid lockdown, but it’s still got great advice in it). It turned out pretty well.

HappilyContentTheseDays · 28/07/2023 20:09

I've been doing mine for years. Make sure you have plenty of time until you get practiced, do have a really sharp pair of haircutting scissors (can buy at Boots or similar) and only use those for your hair.
If you make a mistake, don't worry because hair always grows back and you'll learn more each time you do it.
I can now layer mine, even at the back....probably not as perfect as a hairdresser would do it but good enough for no-one to realise I do it myself. Saves so much time, money and having to make an appointment every time!

DrSbaitso · 28/07/2023 20:13

I haven't had a professional cut since 2019...but I have very long, layered hair that's quite forgiving to a home butchering. If your style requires skill, I wouldn't risk it. Just have a very careful conversation with the stylist and if you find a good one, don't let them go.

AnnieKennyfanclub · 29/07/2023 10:54

Thank you for the encouragement! Well I took the plunge. It’s certainly better than the outgrown bob I had before!

It going to need some tidying up. But I don’t think it needs an emergency trip to the hair dresser!

To cut my own hair?
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Aria2015 · 29/07/2023 11:16

I do go to the hairdresser but I just have a wet cut where they wash it and cut it and I leave with it wet and then style it at home. It's a lot cheaper than a cut and blow-dry and takes a fraction of the time.

DrSbaitso · 29/07/2023 11:18

Well, having urged you to be cautious, I must now say you did a great job.

Augend23 · 29/07/2023 11:18

I have hair that I have long, straight and all one length. My friend does it for me, it takes her literally 2 minutes and is easier and a massive money saver.

SunThroughTheCloudsAt6am · 29/07/2023 11:19

YANBU. I have the same problem. One good haircut, then never reproduced (I have slightly curly hair, so they straighten/blow it to within an inch of its life when they realise I asked for chin-length and choppy, and it's bounced up an inch further than they thought - EVEN THOUGH I TOLD THEM THAT WOULD HAPPEN).

I'm as happy, if not happier with my home cuts as with the hairdresser (I use a 'lot of little bunches so it's all the same-ish length then thin it a bit/cut off anything sticking out' method)

zingally · 29/07/2023 12:39

I cut mine myself, inbetween very infrequent "proper" hair cuts, maybe twice a year.

My hair is cropped, and has a natural wave. So once it gets a bit longer, it fans out around my ears and just looks silly. So I just give it a bit of a cut-back around the ears and towards the back of my neck, and it's good for another 6-8 weeks.

Diedre44 · 29/07/2023 13:19

My DH cuts mine for me with his electric shears and then kind of snips bits at it with decent hairdressing scissors to straighten it up more. I love it just a blunt shaggy bob. This is 3rd day hair and no dry shampoo in-between and I've had it ties back in a little bun but I think it's lovely.

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