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AIBU?

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To be mad at tourists?

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Laserbeam24 · 28/07/2023 11:43

AIBU to be mad at tourists? I live in a place that's popular with cruise ships. Which is fine, great for the local economy. My house it's is right at the end of the Main Street, cue lots of tourists holding maps and doing lots of pointing.

Today, the number of tourists have totalled to HALF of our population. That's a different gripe altogether, though.

I have two cats who enjoy sitting in the window and watching the world go by. I also have a six month old. The issue that I have, is that tourists are stopping to tap on my window (!!!!) to get a response from the cats. I could understand if this was a child once in a blue moon, but it's multiple times every day, and typically grown adults every time there's a liner in.

I've also had a good number of people look into my windows. Not just a sneaky glance as they walk past, but two hands on the window around their face so they can get a proper look in.

I've tried blinds. Someone knocking gave the cats such a fright they jumped and broke the blinds. I don't want to have to keep my curtains shut every day. I'm not going to scold my cats for being at the window, it's their house too! What do I even do?

I'm worried that my daughter is going to grow up thinking this is normal. It's also just incredibly infuriating. Where are people's manners! AIBU?

OP posts:
Lolaandbehold · 04/08/2023 11:46

The responses on this post from some people are so odd. Some people think it's normal that tourists or indeed anyone would walk onto your property, tap on your windows and cup their hands around their faces to look into your house?

OP it's the height of bad manners. It would infuriate me too.

And incidentally, if I walk past a house that has lights on/no curtains, I look in. I am nosey like that. What I don't do is walk onto the actual property/garden and walk up to the window and stare in. Two entirely different scenarios.

I was going to suggest plantation shutters which you can close at the bottom half and keep open on the top but if you rent, you don't want to be spending that kind of money. That opague stuff works well - we have it on the lower part of our bathroom window.

80sMum · 04/08/2023 12:12

jamdonut · 28/07/2023 15:21

I live in a seaside town. At this time of year,with the tourists, its a nightmare. Its like some people come away on holiday and treat the whole town like a "holiday village". It's like they forget that people actually live and work here at the same time as they are on their holidays. What really annoys me is the way people don't take any notice of roads, and walk down them like they are wide pavements or something...not just one or two people , huge, family groups who then look amazed and astounded if you ask them to please move out of the way! Then there's the people who think it is a proper laugh to feed the f*ing seagulls...then wonder why the get swooped on and their ice-creams snatched out of their babies hands. Grrr!
And Blue-badge holders who park on double yellows for 3 hours at a time...yes I know your allowed to ,My DH has one,...but double yellow lines are there for a reason...usually safety or because a road is narrow and can't take traffic up both sides of the road...but NO... a double yellow line is apparently a disabled parking space😏just carry on creating traffic -flow problems!
Then there's coach drivers who follow their sat-navs causing chaos down roads they shouldn't even be thinking of going down!
Don't get me wrong - I'm glad for local businesses when its busy, but , my goodness...have a little thought , holidaymakers, please!

Sorry, but pedestrians have the right to walk on all roads except motorways.

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