I
Posted before about a situation I was in and asked if a man I was seeing for a few months was genuine or fibbing me off, in their opinion.
Overwhelming opinion was that he was genuine but for me to run for the hills as his life is a mess at the
Moment.
To cut a long story short ...
He broke up with an ex gf is 18 months the same weekend as I met him. No crossover.
She has reacted badly and things are really shit there. She gave him an STI and he is feeling disgusting and repulsion towards himself.
His exw is refusing a court order to move and sell their family home so he is renting from a family member for buttons, but no rights as to who lives in house or who visits there. Weird enmeshment stuff.
His salary will not permit a higher rent dues to maintenance and try to save to build his own home. He will likely be there for another 6/12 months.
His young adult children are only back in contact with him proper as they hated his ex. However he has said they do seem to like to control him as best they can.
He is close to and shares responsibility for the care of another sick person in his family
The list goes on.
So, I have no interest in this mess at the moment so we left things amicably saying we would be in contact in a few months when hopefully things settle down.
His ex is still ringing and pleading and asking him to do needless favours on a burner phone. Yet he still entertains her out of guilt as She expected a ring not a break up and has massive baggage herself.
Will he bother to contact? Should I just walk away now?
I fully intend to live my life, have loads of plans ,have fun and adventures in the meantime but was going to put a six month timeline on this and then simply forget it after that.
What do you think?