I have a friend who I haven't seen in over a year. She doesn't seem to actually want to meet up, even though she asks if I'm free, it's very strange.
Occasionally she'll ask if I'm free on the very same day, which I'm usually not as I'm working. However once or twice she's asked if I'm free the following week, I said yes I am and I've given her my availability, then she'll say 'Oh none of that works for me'.
Or I'll suggest something and then she'll take a long time to reply to it (when she doesn't usually) then will come back with an excuse.
She lives around 13 miles away, last time I went to her so I'll see if she comes to me this time. I've previously fallen into that trap of always having to travel to people and they never, ever come to me because they know I'll travel to them, so I'm sticking to my guns.
Anyway part of me thinks she doesn't actually want to meet up, it's all very strange, and I'm sort of thinking what's the point.
I asked if we could meet 6pm Friday but she told me it's too late in the day. I was only expecting to meet for a drink or something, not hours on end. No kids, (I'm not saying that means she has nothing else to do). But there's just something strange about it all.
I thought maybe social anxiety but I know she goes out with other people as she's told me about it.
Anyway, thinking of just leaving it. I think if she'd really wanted to meet me it wouldn't have been over a year.