Is it ok to not go away with partner, kids, his sisters, parents and families ? I find it all a bit much . Different parenting styles, a few people doing all the cooking, organising, very noisy etc etc. We have done a couple of holidays and several wknds away in one big house with this large group and I don't enjoy it, but have done it for the sake of my husband and kids . My husband knows I hate it. How do I get out of future trips or do I just need to suck it up as I have previously. (AIBU) . If I don't go it would cause massive issues and offence with the rest of the family.