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WeWereInParis · 25/07/2023 11:01

Excellent argument for decriminalisation, legalisation and regulation.

Sure. But since it's not currently decriminalised, you can't deny the current harm caused by the illegal drug trade. And I'm assuming you don't deny those current harms, since you're using them as an argument for decriminalisation.

OP is talking about people who minimise the impact of illegal drugs.

MrsDanversGlidesAgain · 25/07/2023 11:02

Excellent argument for decriminalisation, legalisation and regulation

Except.....https://www.politico.com/news/2021/10/23/california-legal-illicit-weed-market-516868

https://eu.courier-journal.com/in-depth/news/crime/2021/12/17/mexican-drug-cartels-move-in-on-californias-shadow-marijuana-industry/6036056001/

Legal drug trade in California being undercut by the illegal trade; which was always going to happen. Did anyone seriously think that the cartels and the rest of the drug trade would give up something that lucrative? they've no interest in being legal. Too much regulation and checking and payment of those pesky things called taxes.

Lauryn95 · 25/07/2023 11:05

But also weed is a grey area because yes it is illegal in the UK but also the UK is the biggest export in the entire world for weed ,The tories own the farms ,there's a huge one in Kent actually and we sell it elsewhere ,which does raise the question why's it banned? Is it really so bad idk

GidgetGirl · 25/07/2023 11:06

Largeslice · 25/07/2023 10:41

I agree something drastic needs to be done regarding hard drugs. But demonising recreational or habitual soft drug users is just wrong. The people, including myself, that i mentioned in my post are doing very little harm to society as opposed to alcohol. many of those who demonise those type of users are the same ones reaching for the vino several nights a week! Pp said a spliff Is the start of a slippery slope. That's utter nonsense.

Precisely. It's perfectly sensible to think the drugs trade is horrendous and poisonous, but the single-minded 'DRUGS R BAD OK' thing is just dogmatic and silly. There are plenty of ways to indulge in drugs (i.e. weed or mushrooms) that don't involve the drugs trade in any way. The former can be grown at home, the latter picked in fields all over the country. I've enjoyed using both over the years, as have the majority of my friends, and none of us have turned into heroin-addled louts.

GidgetGirl · 25/07/2023 11:08

I presume the OP and others despise alcohol and those that drink it just as much as drugs? Given the vast, horrendous impact of alcoholism, alcohol-fueled violence, drink driving, etc etc?..

ComtesseDeSpair · 25/07/2023 11:09

So some idiot stole money and drugs from drug dealers and this is being used as an example that the rest of us should take accountability for?

I think the world can stand to lose a few of its idiots, to be honest.

ExtraOnions · 25/07/2023 11:11

The casual way people talk about Cocaine .. a drug made by slavery, and murder. Children whose parents have been killed, then enslaved in the drugs trade. It’s extraordinary the way that people talk about partners doing “Coke every now and again” as if it’s ok. Legalisation will not stop the brutality of its creation, there is an argument that it would get worse if demand increased.

As the sibling of a former Heroin Addict, there is no way I would advocate for the legalisation of this sort of drug … people would still run out of money .. would still commit crime.. would still I’d.

Samlewis96 · 25/07/2023 11:13

DarkWingDuck · 25/07/2023 10:57

Excellent argument for decriminalisation, legalisation and regulation.

Exactly. If you could get hold of the soft^
/ recreational drugs legally then there is no need to get into and criminal underworld. And no one pushing you to try heroin or other hard stuff when you go to buy a bag of weed

ZeroFuchsGiven · 25/07/2023 11:15

PurpleButterflyWings · 24/07/2023 23:13

You mean 'apologists for drug use...' ?

Yes I absolutely agree. People really piss me off (I see some on here,) with the way they brag about how they used to snort cocaine and have joint with a glass (or 5) of wine! (When they were a bit younger apparently... Hmm...) And the way they act like they were real cool girls and they were better than other people who didn't do it ... (because they were just too uptight!) This really pisses me off!

Smoking a joint is a slippery slope, and the tip of the iceberg - and anyone that does it is an absolute fuckwit, and I have no respect for them and would seriously give them a wide berth. If they think there is anything remotely cool or okay or good about smoking spliffs/snorting cocaine etc, (or anything stronger,) they can get in the fucking bin.

These types are usually the same ones who brag about fucking multiples dozens of men and having orgies etc, as they think it makes them come across as 'edgy' and 'cool.' It doesn't. I would say what they DO come across as but my comment will be deleted!

What a sad heartbreaking story ... anybody that thinks taking drugs is okay - as I said, needs to get in the bin!

Put me in the bin, I don't give a shit.

I smoke weed I wont apologise for it, it has zero negative affect on mine or anyone else's life regardless of what your uptight arse may think.

Annaishere · 25/07/2023 11:16

All I have to say about weed is that it stinks so bad it makes people feel sick and users are oblivious to it

Hufflepods · 25/07/2023 11:17

@PurpleButterflyWings *but many MANY people take them coz they think it's cool and 'edgy.'

Grow up FFS.*

The only one who needs to grow up are the people, like you, who use the ridiculous phrase like "slippery slope!"

As for "look at those people why would anyone take drugs" ... alcohol is a drug and I could drum up loads of images of alcoholics looking a state, but people are still going to have their glass of rose on a Friday night because the two aren't intrinsically linked.

Annaishere · 25/07/2023 11:17

i hope it is legalised so you can take capsules

lostinfusion · 25/07/2023 11:18

so someone who has MS which is helped by smoking weed & grows it themselves is responsible in some way for the horrible things that happened to that poor man?

Peony654 · 25/07/2023 11:19

Hufflepods · 25/07/2023 10:08

I think this says more about the effectiveness of the war on drugs than anything else.

This!! The article exactly highlights that drugs should be decriminalised, regulated and taxed.

JoeyRamoney · 25/07/2023 11:19

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

I feel terrible for his mother.

Largeslice · 25/07/2023 11:24

PurpleButterflyWings · 25/07/2023 10:49

Exactly this. Some people are utterly UTTERLY deluded. It's actually desperately worrying that some people normalise this hideous fashion of smoking/taking recreational drugs and make out it's normal.. duh, people dwink booze ya know duuuh. Fuck me sideways! Hmm

An as for ... 'I only grow my own and use it myself - I'm not doing any harm.. nobody's going to be influenced by me .. it's not going to have any effect on my children or anybody around me ...la la la !!' Hmm Completely fucking deluded and desperately sad and really really really fucking worrying ...

I cannot believe people actually delude themselves in this fashion ... No wonder this country is going to shit.

Please explain how I'm deluded? My kids are grown. I never smoked around them when they were younger. It has zero effect on anybody else but me. Yet you want to demonise people like me (there are thousands of us)

It is normal. Demonise me all you want. It shows your own lack of knowledge or compassion. Also if you drink you are a massive fucking hypocrite. Alcohol is far far more harmful than marijuana. Both physically and societally. No matter how much you try and deny it.

Largeslice · 25/07/2023 11:25

lostinfusion · 25/07/2023 11:18

so someone who has MS which is helped by smoking weed & grows it themselves is responsible in some way for the horrible things that happened to that poor man?

This this this

Fairyliz · 25/07/2023 11:26

Largeslice · 25/07/2023 10:41

I agree something drastic needs to be done regarding hard drugs. But demonising recreational or habitual soft drug users is just wrong. The people, including myself, that i mentioned in my post are doing very little harm to society as opposed to alcohol. many of those who demonise those type of users are the same ones reaching for the vino several nights a week! Pp said a spliff Is the start of a slippery slope. That's utter nonsense.

No it’s not nonsense. A family member started on soft drugs, ended up on heroin and finally went to prison for acts caused whilst under the influence.
He’s now in his 50’s with mental health problems and needing loads of support.
Its such a bloody waste when you remember the lovely talented young man he was.

Annaishere · 25/07/2023 11:29

Age restricting to 25 would stop a lot of people ending up addicted to heroin. But at that, we wouldn’t be buying heroin just oxycodone etc

ThisOldThang · 25/07/2023 11:31

When alcohol (a drug) was illegal in America, there were huge amounts of violent crime committed by those attempting to control the alcohol (drug) trade. Were the people that wanted a quiet drink on a Friday night to blame or was it the government legislation?

The solution to drug crime seems pretty clear...

Hufflepods · 25/07/2023 11:31

Fairyliz · 25/07/2023 11:26

No it’s not nonsense. A family member started on soft drugs, ended up on heroin and finally went to prison for acts caused whilst under the influence.
He’s now in his 50’s with mental health problems and needing loads of support.
Its such a bloody waste when you remember the lovely talented young man he was.

One anecdote doesn't mean anything. Do you know the sheer number of people who use things like weed recreationally and never get close to trying something like heroin or become an addict?

Are you advocating a ban on all alcohol and closing pubs because a beer after work could lead to you becoming an alcoholic? Or have you somehow convinced yourself that drug is socially acceptable and therefore fine to you.

Fairyliz · 25/07/2023 11:33

Hufflepods · 25/07/2023 11:31

One anecdote doesn't mean anything. Do you know the sheer number of people who use things like weed recreationally and never get close to trying something like heroin or become an addict?

Are you advocating a ban on all alcohol and closing pubs because a beer after work could lead to you becoming an alcoholic? Or have you somehow convinced yourself that drug is socially acceptable and therefore fine to you.

Fine by me I don’t drink.

Largeslice · 25/07/2023 11:33

PurpleButterflyWings · 25/07/2023 10:56

I'm hiding this thread. It's giving me the fucking rage.

Maybe that's because you can't disagree with what I've said.

bury your head in the sand if it makes you feel better. You've already shown you don't give a shit about people like me. It's a very telling response to an issue you don't give a fuck about and just want to jump on the "demonise all drugs and users" bandwagon

RunAwayTurnAwayRunAwayTurnAway · 25/07/2023 11:35

Samlewis96 · 25/07/2023 11:13

Exactly. If you could get hold of the soft^
/ recreational drugs legally then there is no need to get into and criminal underworld. And no one pushing you to try heroin or other hard stuff when you go to buy a bag of weed

Naive!

Or wilfully ignoring the obvious.

Quveas · 25/07/2023 11:42

I have no idea what you mean by people "apologising for drug use". But I disagree fundamentally with what you are saying and advocating. And to be clear, I do not take nor have I ever taken illegal drugs (and to be honest, I am deeply concerned about the doling out of legal prescribed drugs without adequate consideration of impacts and damage).

It was not drug use per se that led to this appalling crime. It was the fact that the sale of certain drugs is illegal and is therefore firmly in the hands of criminals. Prohibition of any kind has been repeatedly shown to have absolutely no impact on the availability or sale of prohibited items; its only impact is to place the market for the items in the hands of criminals, with all that that entails.

There is only one way to change that, and that is to find a strategy that decriminalises drugs. I am not in favour of advocating widescale availability - we currebtly have far too much easy access to a wide range of drugs including recreational drugs (like alcohol). Personally I would legalise all use of drugs, and make most (except, perhaps, for the most dangerous ones) available for purchase through the NHS. I would have them sold at a market price - between the purchasing power of the government and trade deals with supplying countries we could reduce costs to well below that which criminals can offer, users and addicts would be better monitored and supported and the profits made could support better drugs and addiction services.

This would also have an impact on drugs related crime - given the amount of lower level crimes like burglary that are driven by the need for money to buy drugs, these would also reduce in number. And it would equally have massive impacts in supplying countries, because we could use economics to support and control the growth / manufacture of supplies, through offocial channels, and suddenly the big cartels have no drugs business - that would free many communities and families abroad who are held in trall to the big crime syndicates.

The bottom line is that we have tried making the supply and use of certain substances illegal for centuries. It hasn't worked. It will never work. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result.