We had our beautiful 16 year old terrier since being a puppy, he’s been amazing, never an ounce of trouble.
The past 6-12 months have been challenging. He paces constantly, he scratches to leave the room, then immediately scratches to come back in. He now does his business in the house almost daily (twice today despite me being in!). His back legs are going and he’s fallen down the stairs a few times. He’s stone deaf, literally no hearing. Partially sighted at best. He does not want to go for a walk or play. His breath is unreal, his teeth are rotten, I took him to the vets but they said he wouldn’t survive s GA to do the work needed. He’s lost a lot of weight despite him eating normally. He snapped at a lady last week (she went to stroke him- didn’t ask) thankfully he’s no teeth but I was shocked as it’s so out of character.
On the other hand he is still mobile (slowly and cautiously). His appetite is insane (I actually think he forgets we’ve fed him) and drinks no problem. He does seem to recognise us still although he’s not too bothered about affection. He would walk on the lead around the block.
I feel like it’s time we started to think about saying goodbye, my husband thinks he’s still eating, drinking and walking so its too premature.
Its heartbreaking but i cannot cope with the constant urinating and pooing in the house, watching him aimlessly wandering like he’s no idea where he is…
Whats the right thing to do? Would the vet advise us what’s best for him or do we make the decision?
My husband wants to wait (till it’s obvious ie: fits/heartattack/stroke)… I’d rather it be controlled and calm…
who is being unreasonable?