My sister blocked me last year, and I haven’t spoken to her since. She has mental health issues, and has been through a lot. Every time she gets upset with me, or I say something she doesn’t like she will block me and then unblock again months later, this has been going on for years now and I’m getting fed up. The last time she blocked me was in August last year, im even embarrassed to tell you why it’s that ridiculous. We speak everyday, and last year I got a new job and was really busy, so for one week I didn’t call her but we were texting , because I didn’t call her that week she got upset and told me I’m “chasing money”.
I’m the only one in my family who moved away, and next year I will be moving back after 11 years in the UK. Now that she found out I’m moving back home with my children through my younger sister, she got all excited and said she would help me get settled, and our children can finally live close and see each other more. That would be nice,and that’s all I want. She’s now complaining to my youngest sister that it’s been a year since she spoke to me and she can’t believe I haven’t contacted her, but she blocked me and expects me to Initiate contact?
I’m moving back next year, and I don’t know if I should try and initiate contact and just get on for the sake of the children or should I just leave it and don’t speak to her at all? A part of me just want to leave her alone and just get on with my life, but there’s another part that want to initiate contact and just tell her that if she blocks me again I will never speak to her again? Just let her know how I feel and give her another chance so she’s aware if she does it again that will be it. She probably blocked me last year thinking we would talk again after a few months, cuz that’s how it’s always been but it really hurt me.