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To be uncomfortable with the film Oppenheimer?

584 replies

LKM23 · 21/07/2023 18:23

I haven't seen the film, I'm sure it's a brilliant thriller and will be a Blockbuster hit. I don't think I'll watch it though, it makes my feel really uncomfortable.

It feels like a man who at the end of the day killed thousands of people and damaged millions is being celebrated and turned into a hero.

I lived in Japan for 10 years in my twenties. I visited both Hiroshima and Nagasaki and spent a lot of time with people both directly and indirectly affected by the dropping of the bombs. Those scars are real and still there and will be for a very very long time. It changed Japan and the people who live there forever and at the end of the day I think he was an awful person.

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JudyEdithPerry · 22/07/2023 10:16

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Gingerboy22 · 22/07/2023 10:16

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:14

Nope, the US was intercepting Japanese comms. They knew Japan wanted to surrender.

Ummmm yes and that is what I was saying BUT it was not all of the Japanese leaders. If Japan really wanted to surrender then they hold their hands up - easy peasy.

MissyGirlie · 22/07/2023 10:16

yogibutton · 22/07/2023 10:06

I have to say, apart from MissyGirlie whose position at least is based on personal history and in that way understandable, the other defenders on this thread appear brainwashed - now talking about freedom (!) Soon they'll start on the axis of evil and civilisational conflict. And how America saves us all. I think I've seen enough so I'll bow out.

I actually find that quite patronising, which I suspect was not your intent.

I think it's perfectly possible to come at this argument 'cold', as it were, and still feel that a net saving of lives was a good idea.

Japan could have surrendered. There was a huge amount of infighting going on. Prolonging the war - which was the consequence of the infighting - was costing thousands upon thousands of lives a day, many of them the lives of non-combatants.

Obliterating cities is very obviously awful. Pyres of Tamil cholera victims deep in the mountains of Thailand are harder to see.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/07/2023 10:17

Yes there was a minority of high level of civilians in Japan trying to push for peace & hoping the Russians would help. The military commanders however would not countenance surrender and they held the power

That’s a world away from “had already decided to surrender”

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:18

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:01

By saying we shouldn’t kill children or participate in nuclear war?

Give over

How do you feel about the Japanese children, young teenage boys, being forced into being Kamikaze pilots? Or the children dying of starvation in Japanese POW camps? Do those children matter.

DismantledKing · 22/07/2023 10:18

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/07/2023 10:17

Yes there was a minority of high level of civilians in Japan trying to push for peace & hoping the Russians would help. The military commanders however would not countenance surrender and they held the power

That’s a world away from “had already decided to surrender”

And there was also an attempted coup by disaffected army officers even after the Emperor finally decided to surrender. They wanted to continue the war.

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:19

Gingerboy22 · 22/07/2023 10:16

Ummmm yes and that is what I was saying BUT it was not all of the Japanese leaders. If Japan really wanted to surrender then they hold their hands up - easy peasy.

Why does it need to be all the leaders? They knew Japan wanted to surrender, they could have delayed the bombs.

But the US saw their chances to drop their toys were running out.

DismantledKing · 22/07/2023 10:19

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:19

Why does it need to be all the leaders? They knew Japan wanted to surrender, they could have delayed the bombs.

But the US saw their chances to drop their toys were running out.

You have a child’s understanding of history.

JudyEdithPerry · 22/07/2023 10:20

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Gingerboy22 · 22/07/2023 10:20

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:19

Why does it need to be all the leaders? They knew Japan wanted to surrender, they could have delayed the bombs.

But the US saw their chances to drop their toys were running out.

Now you are just being silly.

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:21

DismantledKing · 22/07/2023 10:19

You have a child’s understanding of history.

Well the commanding general of the US Army Air Forces must have been a child too then.

The commanding general of the US Army Air Forces, Henry “Hap” Arnold, gave a strong indication of his views in a public statement 11 days after Hiroshima was attacked. Asked on August 17 by a New York Times reporter whether the atomic bomb caused Japan to surrender, Arnold said that “the Japanese position was hopeless even before the first atomic bomb fell, because the Japanese had lost control of their own air.”

“It was a mistake.... [the scientists] had this toy and they wanted to try it out, so they dropped it.” —Adm. William “Bull” Halsey

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:21

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:18

How do you feel about the Japanese children, young teenage boys, being forced into being Kamikaze pilots? Or the children dying of starvation in Japanese POW camps? Do those children matter.

Horrific.

Are you trying to say we did the Japanese a favour?

MissyGirlie · 22/07/2023 10:22

Why does it need to be all the leaders? They knew Japan wanted to surrender, they could have delayed the bombs.
SOME Japanese putting out peace feelers is not the same as the council agreeing that they were prepared to surrender unconditionally.

Prolonging the war was costing thousands of lives a day. But yeah, sure, drag things on by another fortnight and watch another 150,000 people go to their graves.

Theeyeballsinthesky · 22/07/2023 10:22

Exactly @DismantledKing and given that the emperor was regarded as divine in Japan at that time, the fact they even considered it speaks volumes of their mindset

For some, death was preferable to surrender

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:23

yogibutton · 22/07/2023 09:03

@MissyGirlie
Your post exemplifies my point exactly. You say it was the lesser of two evils. Who are you to evaluate evils and make a judgement of which one is lesser? You just repeat an official popular American (maybe British-American) version of that history, but you're somehow convinced that it has superior access to truth and you allow yourself to occupy a moral position in relation to this atrocious act which makes you feel comfortable. This is just how ideology works.

Not doing anything was also making a judgement. Not stopping the war was making the judgement that the camps, civilians and military, could be left to suffer and die, that Japan could continue to terrorise millions of people in Asia.

Not doing their utmost to stop the war would not be a neutral act.

Lacucuracha · 22/07/2023 10:24

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The excerpt from this link, which does cite sources.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrender_of_Japan

Surrender of Japan - Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Surrender_of_Japan

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:25

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:21

Horrific.

Are you trying to say we did the Japanese a favour?

If I was a peasant farmer with a son of 14 or 15 who was likely to be taken to be a kamikaze pilot in the near future I think I would have been very very grateful that the war was over and that the leaders who were quite happy to treat my child as cannon fodder were gone.

Heffapotamus · 22/07/2023 10:26

Saw the film yesterday. It is nuanced - as is the character of Oppenheimer.
It's worth a watch if you like films that make you think - and not just about the ethics of nuclear war. The relationship between science and politics, how voices are silenced for expediency and people "cancelled" is at times even more chilling than our ability to destroy the world.

Coolhwip · 22/07/2023 10:27

I hope none of you rabid pro-bombers have been to Japan. I’d hate to see your smug faces there.

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:28

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:25

If I was a peasant farmer with a son of 14 or 15 who was likely to be taken to be a kamikaze pilot in the near future I think I would have been very very grateful that the war was over and that the leaders who were quite happy to treat my child as cannon fodder were gone.

You seriously think a farmer would be grateful for his nation being the target of a nuclear attack?
Christ alive

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:31

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:28

You seriously think a farmer would be grateful for his nation being the target of a nuclear attack?
Christ alive

Do you really think they wouldn't be relieved that their sons weren't going to be thrown away as cannon fodder?

I have sons and grandsons and their lives matter more to me than who is winning a war.

Bubblesoffun · 22/07/2023 10:34

I can’t believe how simplistic and idealistic some people are on here! You can not ascribe 21st century ideas and thinking to WWII. It must be lovely to see the world through your rose tinted lenses.

Hadjab · 22/07/2023 10:35

LKM23 · 21/07/2023 18:34

Well yes, I DEFINITELY won't be watching Barbie!

Well your missing out then, because IT’S BLOODY FANTASTIC!

GrinAndVomit · 22/07/2023 10:35

Iwasafool · 22/07/2023 10:31

Do you really think they wouldn't be relieved that their sons weren't going to be thrown away as cannon fodder?

I have sons and grandsons and their lives matter more to me than who is winning a war.

There is no way that you genuinely believe anyone would ever be grateful for a nuclear attack on their country.
There is no way you’re discussing this in good faith.

Hadjab · 22/07/2023 10:35

*you’re