Letter to ex

[Honeybu]

I really miss you. I don’t know if you miss me, and i know you have a girlfriend now. I’m happy for you, really, but i cant help but wish i was her. i wanna tell you how i feel and tell you that i miss you still and still love you.

but how can you cut me off brutally as if I never existed and mean 😢 nothing to you at all. I’m very sad, confused and shocked. I know this is break up and you are moving on but I can’t do this to you cut you off. I thought we could be friends after break up but obviously not. I cry every time I think of the memories we had.

we both agree to the break up but the painful thing for me is you cutting me off brutally. It’s been 6 months and I cry every time I think of you

Move on, they have.

It won't help and probably make you feel worse when he doesn't reply.

@Honeybu are you just writing this on here to get it out?
That's fair enough.
I understand. It's shit. Keep going.

OK, get it out, with this being written down, this is the best release. Then channel into something else (anything!) so you start changing routines and moving on.

By all means write letters to get your emotions out and help you process and move on.

Absolutely do not send them. It won't help and is very unfair if your ex has a new partner. No contact is far better after a breakup than attempting to stay friends straight away - distance is required for feelings to fade and settle before friendship can even be a possibility. Look how hurt and upset you are, do you really think that's a foundation for a healthy friendship to be built on?

Your ruminations have allowed you to build up this relationship into more than it ever was. If you were actually meant to be with this man, you would be. Unrequited love is just wasted time.

I can prove to you this man doesn't care about you, and he isn't worthy of your emotional energy - He isn't with you. That's the proof.

I haven’t send him a message but just wish I could just call him and we talk and laugh or he just come over like he used to. Night time is the worst I just miss him so much. I’m talking to other guys to try dating again but if he come back there’s a good chance I’ll take him back. There were bad times but nothing major but I’m only drawn to think of the good times. So heartbroken and feeling maybe he never loved me, how can anyone switch emotions so quickly from love to I don’t want to talk or see you again.

Wallow wallow
Then pick up and move on op

@cestlavielife the song exactly how I’m feeling. “ l know we weren’t perfect but I never felt this way for no one” .

I really thought this was it for me my future and everything

Life is cruel
But you will survive snd move forward
Tell yourself five more days to wallow then you done

God please please don't send ANYTHING.

Hi M,

I just can’t believe I will probably never see you again, how can you manage to do this cut off brutally. I have deleted your number to stop me constantly texting you. But I don’t want anyone I just want you, why must this happen. After all we been through I thought we can pull through everything and anything and our love can keep us together. The ball was on your side to finalise your divorce and we settle down but all you was saying is excuses. After separated from your wife for almost 10years, why would you not divorce? I’m I not good enough? Was you just using me? Why? Just why? The painful part is I love you so much xx

THIS IS A SHOUT OUT TO MY EX