To not visit for a while

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My dm is unwell
she was nearly dying last week
long history of me just feeling I can’t do right for doing wrong often accuses of things and anything I do is not enough I have felt worn out with this for years
last 2 days she won’t even be nice or say she loves me back, won’t even hug me because I won’t take her home (because she can’t walk and is a risk to hersel)
shw wants me to take her in my car and drive home and look after her even though I physically can’t
I feel like I can’t function anymore iv not slept for weeks I feel like I just want to give up with it all
aibu to say I’m unwell and take a week out and dis-engage with this?

She thinks iv not been there when iv borrowed money to get there to huy her stuff iv taken a week off work I don’t know what else I can do

Do you have any siblings, children or friends who could go in your stead?

I think you are within your rights to need a break, but I'd want someone to keep an eye on her too.

Friends and family are but I know she wants me