I'm starting to find my DH really unattractive.
He's in his 40's and is obsessed with social media. He cannot put his phone down.
As I'm typing this he's meant to be clearing the dishes after tea but he's on his phone, watching videos and completely distracted.
He has a TikTok account and feels the need to constantly post videos on there of himself, whether it be a lip syncing video or a 'funny' video.
We went out shopping before and he bought some ramen, fizzy drinks and crisps purely to do an ASMR video and a review video. We have 2 children and I don't want them to be cringed at their dad's behaviour on SM, he acts like a 19 year old begging for attention.
Everything he does has to revolve around social media and how he can post something and get attention.
He will comment that I only had X amount of birthday messages on my Facebook wall and he got more. Comments that he has X amount of likes on a status or video. Constantly sits there and watches himself on video over and over again.
I'm really getting the ick and I find it sad that he feels like he needs the attention from a bunch of strangers. I feel like he gets much more satisfaction from a reaction on social media than his family.
I have tried to have multiple conversations about how I feel and each time I'm brushed off with "you go on your phone a lot" or "no I don't, you're just trying to cause an argument".
I feel like he has an addiction to social media, he gets very defensive when I say this, almost like a gambling addict or crackhead denies their addiction.
I really don't know what to do anymore.