Getting married next year. Dp has said totally my choice if I have any or not and if I do who they are. I plan on having my brothers 2 daughters and step daughter as bridesmaids. They are traveling along way and we only see them a few times year. Bil to be will also be travelling but less than half the distance. AIBU not asking his daughters to be bridesmaids? Firstly 3 in a registry office seems plenty although youngest niece will be flower girl really due to age.
For context when bil and sil to be got married, mine and dps children were not invited yet other children that were not fily were in the wedding party. I said nothing despite being upset as it was their day to have the people they chose. We will at least be inviting them just not paying for their outfits etc like I will my nieces on my side. Had our children been in attendance I think I would be going out of my way to include them all, yet finding dresses for girls aged 3 to 19 that match would be difficult. My brothers girls will be 6 to 13 and have already seen nice dresses available in all their sizes but not in bil to be's daughters sizes.