To leave my marriqge over lack of affection

[Lockeddownagain]

Long story short 1 child. Q husband who refuses to come to.bed qt the same time but used tocuddle when he got in 4weeks ago he stopped doing that no cuddles or.kisses during the day never says I love you I feel so disgustingly replusive it's literally destroying me. But the thought of not seeing my child daily kills me
I'm crying again trying to sleep not to mention emitoo ally charged messages I found on his phone to a single female colleague. Broken doesn't cover it 💔

You wouldn't be leaving for lack of affection you'd be leaving because he's a cheating arse who has withdrawn from you. Two totally different things. Get angry and kick him out don't wait for him to see if things with the other person workout.

Hi @Lockeddownagain i'm so sorry you're going through this xx
I know it's so hard. Be strong, you are an amazing woman and no way do you deserve this. Don't make any decisions just yet, take each day as it comes and get your energy and confidence back xx ❤

He’s gone cold because he’s cheating with female colleague weather it be physically or emotionally he has disconnected from you.

Id let him know you know and kick him out!

I spoke to her about it as I work there too 🙄 she was really like confused I thought there was a problem. Unless she texts all men werid messages late at night and invites them round late after work.

He's knows I know I told him I'd checked his phone and he said it didn't knownifnhe could trust me cos I hadnt trusted him he said there is nothing on his part and he just wanted to make more friends. I hibeslt wondered then if he thought I was bottoned up the back