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Stressedafff · 15/07/2023 20:51

My relationship with DD’s dad is abusive. Hes abused me virtually from the start, started off by taking my money, then he’d become violent whenever he drank and then it just came to treating me like shit

Hes never bought me anything, spoils my birthdays and insults me on a daily basis, however recently has been showing signs of changing. I’ve all of a sudden been extremely angry and indifferent. I think of the occasions where both he and his family have wronged me and my blood boils, I don’t want him hugging me, kissing me, we don’t have sex
Things I’d forgotten pop into my head every single day, how much I’ve lost through him, how much I crave for my old life, how much I feel he’s robbed from me.

I don’t know what to do with these thoughts. First of all, I want to leave, do I just ring womens aid and ask for help even though he isn’t physically violent?
Can anyone also advise me what these thoughts and feelings are. I’m so confused, I’ve forgiven everything without even thinking about it in the past but now I just feel odd.

OP posts:
Raindropbattle · 15/07/2023 21:07

Sorry you're going through this. You're angry because you're being mistreated, that's normal, it shows you know it's not right and you don't deserve to be dealing with it. Ringing women's aid and talking to trusted friends or family will help you make a plan.

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