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Apologies, another A&E thread

54 replies

chocolatesundae · 14/07/2023 18:37

Just want to start by saying I’m NOT a troll and MN can verify I’m a longtime poster. I’m going to use some embarrassing words in this post but it’s just body parts the same as arm/leg and I’m trying to describe things accurately to get the best relevant advice possible

I actually have a longer running thread about this where I was getting advice as it was progressing but since this is about going to a&e I thought I would ask in a separate thread

genuinely cannot tell if I’m being ridiculous about this or not, I don’t want to be a timewaster and I’m actually terrified of hospitals so don’t want to go but I’m now also terrified of whatever is going on with my body so don’t know whether I should wait to try and get an appointment with the GP when they reopen next weekend or bite the bullet and just go to hospital and see if they can do something to help sooner

I have psoriasis already and I have had problems with the skin around my vagina. I’ve had a problems with itching, burning and pain for around 6 months and I was treated for UTIs, BV, thrush etc but nothing helped. Around 3 months ago shaved and noticed the burning and discomfort was all coming from a tear/split/cut/open wound which was vertical, about an inch big now and around the clitoris hood area just above the clitoris. It was clearly infected. I’ve been to the GP several times and been told it was psoriasis which has become infected. I’ve tried steroid creams, antibiotics, antibiotic creams etc and nothing has helped. This is on top of the thrush/BV treatments I tried before all this. I posted on here and received unbelievably amazing help (thank you very much again to everyone ❤️) and I’m not certain if it is infected psoriasis, or lichen sclerosis but whatever it is it’s infected atm and not clearing up.

the reason I’m considering biting the bullet and going to a&e tonight is I’ve realised the area now has more cuts. This alone wouldn’t make me go to a&e as it’s probably from dryness or maybe psoriasis or LS or whatever is causing the Lothian problem but the infection from the original cut above the clitoris is still active and has spread to the new cuts. I’ve just realised one of those new cuts is deep, really quite deep. From looking at a labelled diagram i think it’s a tear along the edge of the inner labia, like where the fold in the skin is. Im genuinely scared it will get deeper over the weekend and it will leave part of my labia basically hanging off (although this may be biologically impossible and just me worrying about nothing!)

but it’s a chronic issue, admittedly worse tonight but it’s a chronic problem so would I be better to wait and go to the GP after the weekend? The cuts (including the deep one) are not bleeding but are all visibly infected and I’m just worried especially about the deeper labia one. But I don’t have a temperature and im well otherwise.

Basically I don’t know what to do and because I’ve been struggling with this for a while I’m slightly losing perspective with it all so if anyone could help or advice either way I would be immensely grateful x

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chocolatesundae · 31/07/2023 19:21

GetInTheBinThenGetInTheSea · 31/07/2023 13:49

This might sound like an odd suggestion but would you consider a few sessions on a sunbed?

They offer light therapy on the NHS as UVB light is known to improve psoriasis. A sunbed is going to have UVA and UVB, and obviously it's risky, but personally, I see a massive improvement if I keep up a light tan. My grandfather had it too (it's genetic) and he used to go on holiday to Spain frequently because it would fix all his patches.

If you're at your wit's end, a few sessions of three minutes each on a stand up sunbed might help. That would probably cost about £10.

Alternatively, they sell UVB lamps for home if you're willing to pay £150. I have one from this place - carelamps.com/products/derma-uvb

Oh I hadn’t even thought of that, thanks for the suggestion! I’ll look online for anywhere local that can do it!

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Smittenkitchen · 01/08/2023 13:22

You can't be left with an active infection! Unacceptable. It sounds like you're being met with obstacles but also as if possibly you're being a bit too polite and accepting what they say, also maybe not quite getting across quite how horrendous it is. Very difficult with a broken health service though. Those are crazy waiting lists. Have you researched where you would go privately, how much a consultation would be etc? Can anyone lend you some money?

ButterCrackers · 01/08/2023 13:24

Straight to A&E. You need this checked and treated right away.

Luxell934 · 02/08/2023 10:46

I don't know how much an initial private dermatologist appointment would be but would it be worth getting a loan or overdraft or something to pay for it now and then save up to pay it off later.
Have the initial appointment, see what they say and then they will write a letter to your GP advising on treatment which you can then send to NHS dermatology who will hopefully see you quicker if the primate derm says its more urgent???

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