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To think cancer is rising exponentially in under 55s?

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Peverellshire · 13/07/2023 07:28

Anecdotes not data, but:

  1. Kidney cancer that’s spread - friend - fit, well, 52, diagnosed after routine check for something else. Spread to other organs, no symptoms
  2. Triathlete colleague, 52 years. Stomach/ bowel cancer, spread. Diagnosed after, a sudden, violent, stomach upset. Stage 4.
  3. Colleague / stage 4 bowel cancer, aged 47, no real symptoms.
Numerous other acquaintances in 50-55 bracket.

Should we have ‘preventative’ MRIs?
To be expected in 50s as old/older?
Does it reflect your experience?

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BatteryPowerGnat · 08/01/2024 18:22

@Delatron
Fgs I said it's more likely genes, smoking, alcohol or obesity AS OPPOSED TO VACCINES.
Apart from vaccines, the above are RISK factors for many types of cancer. Plus other factors eg environmental, stress, lack of sleep etc.
Smoking 60 a day for 40 years is no guarantee that you will get lung cancer but it not advised because it increases the risks to your health. An old work colleague of mine started smoking at 14 when the health risks were not known. Was it her fault? No
Different people will get cancer for several different reasons.
DH genes made him more likely to get prostate cancer than not.

Delatron · 08/01/2024 18:25

BatteryPowerGnat · 08/01/2024 18:22

@Delatron
Fgs I said it's more likely genes, smoking, alcohol or obesity AS OPPOSED TO VACCINES.
Apart from vaccines, the above are RISK factors for many types of cancer. Plus other factors eg environmental, stress, lack of sleep etc.
Smoking 60 a day for 40 years is no guarantee that you will get lung cancer but it not advised because it increases the risks to your health. An old work colleague of mine started smoking at 14 when the health risks were not known. Was it her fault? No
Different people will get cancer for several different reasons.
DH genes made him more likely to get prostate cancer than not.

Yes you explained that in your subsequent post. I took umbrage to the initial post which focused on just a couple of factors. I still don’t agree with it but since you went on to explain…

fliptopbin · 08/01/2024 18:31

ForTheSnarkWasABoojumYouSee · 08/01/2024 17:56

These are changes since the 1990s, not the 1950s.

Even in the 90's, cancer was discussed less. Plus, there was no social media in the 90s.

ForTheSnarkWasABoojumYouSee · 08/01/2024 18:44

fliptopbin · 08/01/2024 18:31

Even in the 90's, cancer was discussed less. Plus, there was no social media in the 90s.

Could be true, but in fact the researchers who've looked at the data are confident that this is a genuine increase in incidence.

ForTheSnarkWasABoojumYouSee · 08/01/2024 18:45

WashItTomorrow · 08/01/2024 18:07

Fewer of them, though. One in seven women will get breast cancer. Something needs to be done. Screening is also ineffective in many cases.

Most of the women who get breast cancer are well over the age we're discussing though.

Disturbia81 · 08/01/2024 18:47

Sister died of kidney cancer spread to lungs 39. Seems to be getting more common

WashItTomorrow · 08/01/2024 21:03

ForTheSnarkWasABoojumYouSee · 08/01/2024 18:45

Most of the women who get breast cancer are well over the age we're discussing though.

Yes, that is true - though I was under that age. But the factors that cause the breast cancer might well have been there for many, many years previously. And many breast cancers are missed for years, even with regular screening.

lollipoprainbow · 09/01/2024 18:52

5128gap · 08/01/2024 15:23

I'm 54 and (touch wood!) have only known of one cancer death in my wider circle of aquintances, friends and colleagues for about a decade, and that person was 80. I've never known of anyone die of cancer with the type of sudden onset no warning at all symptoms you describe. I do worry that people seem to be putting a lot of concerning symptoms down to menopause or long covid these days though, and that coupled with poor NHS services could lead to delays in diagnosis.

I do! My sister, seven years ago went to the doctors with what she thought was a simple virus and promptly end up in hospital. She was diagnosed with terminal stomach cancer and died a few months later. Completely out the blue. My worst nightmare.

Teeshirt · 09/01/2024 19:24

A friend of mine, diagnosed with stage 4 bowel cancer, age 50. No symptoms. Only detected when he had planned surgery for an appendectomy. Me, breast cancer age 50. Another friend aged 48, pancreatic cancer. Lasted about a month from diagnosis to death.

Peverellshire · 09/01/2024 19:26

@lollipoprainbow so sorry to hear.

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Delatron · 09/01/2024 20:12

Yes I’d avoid bottled water if you can. Good that they are finally looking in to all this stuff.

Next all the chemicals sprayed on to our crops..

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