@wutheringkites
The reasoning they often give is that they had hard times too or that things will be made right through inheritance, but I think that attitude stinks and just further entrenched inequality, which harms us all.
Fully agree. I really hate the "you'll get it all when I die" mantra so often trotted out by the older generation to their struggling children, grandchildren, nieces/nephews, cousins, etc. It's really akin to the way your grandma or aunt used to have all her "best" in a cupboard, never seeing the light of day, i.e. best tablecloth, best china, etc., or even worse, those that had a "front room" that no one was ever allowed in. Just what the hell is the point?
It's not being "grabby" that the younger generation need help, or even an acknowledgement that they've been screwed over. And all this crap about mobile phone contracts and netflix subscriptions - the chasm between spending on a few regular subscriptions and house prices means that even if they cancelled some of their monthly direct debits, they'd still never even be close to owning their own home - they'd be long dead by the time they'd saved enough from saving £50 per month for the deposit!
We inherited from my mother when we were in our late 40s and we'd long gone through our "struggling" years of running an ancient car, no holidays, saving like mad for a deposit, no meals out, and starting our own business at the same time as finding out we were pregnant, living on a year's interest free credit card! It came too late to help us, and we didn't want to spend it on something we really didn't need like a bigger house or new cars, so we "ring fenced" it for our son so that he can benefit from it - he doesn't know how much is there so doesn't have any kind of entitled attitude, but our plan is to "match" his spending/saving on things to improve his life, such as a flat deposit, buying a decent/safe car, buying a decent laptop for studying/WFH, furniture for a flat, etc - NOT discretionary spending such as hobbies, holidays, takeaways, etc. So, yes, he's "lucky" in getting a leg up, but we really don't want him to struggle and potentially make poor life choices basically waiting for us to die to get our inheritance - the youngsters need help today, not in decades to come when we're dead!
And yes, re another poster's views on voting, I WILL be voting for whichever party has genuine plans to help younger generations, rather than self interest as someone pretty close to being a pensioner. We're alright and don't need more help, like huge numbers of pensioners who've benefitted from house price increases, good healthcare/education in the past, etc, local decent job opportunities. The younger generations don't have that - they need as much help as they can get. Whatever colour rosette will get our vote if they stop pandering to pensioners and start helping the younger generation of workers!