@FlyingUnicornWings how can they know if her symptoms were there before her mum died?
@Whichclubisittonight
Firstly, people aren‘tADHD, they may have ADHD, but you can[t say someoneisADHD.
Well I actually prefer ADHDifferent. I believe in the neurodiversity movement. Similarly people are Autistic they don't have autism.
Secondly, why are you so keen for her not to have ADHD?
I am keen for her to get the support she needs and an accurate diagnosis.
It would actually be more simple if she did have ADHD/ is ADHDifferent as she is open to having ADHD. She is not open to exploring her trauma...IF she has it.
If she goes for an assessment, they‘ll be able to tell her whether they believe she has it or not and I suspect they‘re far more qualified than you are to make that call.
Of course they are more qualified to make the call. I'm not trying to diagnose her. I'm on a forum to help my understanding. It was me who suggested ADHD to her. She had never considered it before I talked to her about it.
She may not use the word trauma, but they may well ask her questions about her past and draw their own conclusions.
That sounds reassuring. Thank you
If she‘s generally struggling, why would you not want her to pursue this and see if medication helps her?
I do want her to persue it. And I also want her to be open minded about the effects of her mum dieing.