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Did the captain Tom foundation charity really use the money to build their own spa pool??

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Terryer · 05/07/2023 07:25

Just reading the paper this morning and see the family of Captain Tom have been ordered to pull down a building in their garden with a spa pool. I think it's a planning issue but the inference is that they used the money raised to build it. Did they really?

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BitOutOfPractice · 05/07/2023 08:41

NeedToThinkOfOne · 05/07/2023 08:18

Posts on here validate the Daily Fail running with what is essentially a planning permission issue the family have with their local council, but the Fail know it’ll get the clicks and comments from ‘disgusted of Home Counties, who never trusted that charity anyway’ and all those people who seem to know lots of Captain Tom’s inner thoughts too.
Keep funding the Daily Fail, folks 🙄

I read it on the BBC news site yesterday. I never ever click a DM link. I don’t think this is a story the DM broke.

Witchinawell · 05/07/2023 08:41

I would never have said this at the time but I never liked the Man ! Something just seemed off. Felt validated when he wrote in his memoirs that he left his first wife as marriage was sexless & went off with a younger wife. Tells you everything you need to know really about this character.

Bloodysoapoperas · 05/07/2023 08:44

@Plbrookes eh ?

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:44

I didn’t understand the hype at the time. I never warmed to him. Didn’t ever get that feeling

TinaYouFatLard · 05/07/2023 08:44

The whole thing was iffy from the start. The public and media reaction was embarrassing.

Chocolateship · 05/07/2023 08:44

His daughter is a grifter who exploited her father for her own gain. The charity commission is still investigating hopefully the truth will come out (a lot is already out there).

Supersimkin2 · 05/07/2023 08:45

Like many charities, most of the money goes on the ‘staff’ not the cause. Legal.

Charity law lets you fundraise millions and only give away £1 if you show that you’re spending the bulk of the donations on ‘running the charity’.

That includes buying buildings and/or homes for the staff, private pensions, private medical care, years of paid sick leave, entertainment, hotel bills, flights abroad, you name it.

Now Big Charities have got used to this life, they argue indignantly that it should continue.

Anyone who asks why it costs £92 to give £8 away (irl example) gets shouted down coz charidee. Oh and ‘charity provides jobs’. Doing what? Asking for more money, you don’t say.

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:45

Why take an old boy of 100 on a long haul flight to Barbados

Chocolateship · 05/07/2023 08:46

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:45

Why take an old boy of 100 on a long haul flight to Barbados

Probably where he caught covid too. Fully paid for family holiday though.

Tortiemiaw · 05/07/2023 08:46

I'm a bit baffled as to why they had no room in their house. I mean it was hardly a council flat was it?

RosaGallica · 05/07/2023 08:46

@Dotjones i don’t think you can compare the “self interest” of those who genuinely want to see a better world for all with the corruption suggested, of one wealthy family using media and publicly donated funds to build a new stately family home!

I do agree that the shift in our society from the idea of a meritocratic public sector funding things for all to a model of wealthy inheriting families “donating” out of the goodness of their hearts, with big plaques to remind everyone of their benevolence, is shit. It was modelled on old imperial values and if it was not always intended to rebuild the mentality of old empires, it was obvious that that was what would happen.

I have always grieved for the shift, and the betrayal of the hope left to us by those who fought a war to stop empire building. We could have had something new.

It was also always bloody stupid given that empires always die and the unavoidable seeds of death for this one, climate and ecological change, were already there.

Hdkatznahtw125sgh · 05/07/2023 08:47

Plbrookes · 05/07/2023 08:05

Unbelievable that there are people set against the idea of a charity making life a bit more pleasant for nurses and patients. Do people genuinely have no compassion?

The thing is lots of us in the nhs didn’t see any evidence of this . As an ITU nurse that worked through covid the public fixating on the feel good factor for themselves around this has neither benefitted patients or nursing staff. That isn’t all on what may or not have happened with the charity (the nhs is great at mismanaging money) but don’t use nurses or patients as a way to censor discussion.

It was a morale boost for the public in a lonely and difficult time, it’s difficult for many if it turns out there was/is corruption.

toomuchlaundry · 05/07/2023 08:49

Wasn’t the money raised for the NHS charities separate to this?

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:51

Members of the public shouldn’t have to br raising money for the NHS. It needs to be properly funded by taxes

saraclara · 05/07/2023 08:51

User9753224 · 05/07/2023 07:47

I can’t help thinking if everything they’ve done is above board, how terrible and brutal for the family to read this stuff about themselves and be put under the spotlight.

These days I never know what to believe in our press.

The charity's trustees have said that they knew nothing about this build and would never have sanctioned using the organisation's funds for it if they had known about it.

I'm a trustee of a charity myself, and that they've come out and said this is absolutely damning. The trustees are ultimately legally and financially responsible for actions taken in its name. They must be appalled.

LaffTaff · 05/07/2023 08:51

I was sick of the sight of him, he's one of the prevailing faux facade's of the covid era - elderly chap enjoying his restriction induced spare time... In reality, the elderly were dying in their droves of restriction induced isolation and loneliness.

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:51

EctopicSpleen · 05/07/2023 08:46

It's terrible when people take British public for fools then get away with basking in unearned luxury.
https://www.thenorthernecho.co.uk/news/20612012.rishi-sunaks-huge-swimming-pool-north-yorkshire-pictured/

Disgusting. Wtf does he know about the real world.

Yea2023 · 05/07/2023 08:53

Plbrookes · 05/07/2023 08:05

Unbelievable that there are people set against the idea of a charity making life a bit more pleasant for nurses and patients. Do people genuinely have no compassion?

I’m against quite a bit of charity (not the charity themselves mind but the need for it).

Staff comfort (or public services themselves) shouldn’t be at the mercy of donations/charity, it should be a feature of the service and embedded within the cost.

This ‘feel good’ was at a time when govt was coughing up £££ but not providing PPE and god knows what else.

Salacia · 05/07/2023 08:53

Witchinawell · 05/07/2023 08:41

I would never have said this at the time but I never liked the Man ! Something just seemed off. Felt validated when he wrote in his memoirs that he left his first wife as marriage was sexless & went off with a younger wife. Tells you everything you need to know really about this character.

I never quite bought into the kindly old gentleman persona when he was happy to broadcast to the world intimate details of his first marriage. Just didn’t see how it was a necessary or kind thing to do.

Yea2023 · 05/07/2023 08:54

Tidsleytiddy · 05/07/2023 08:51

Members of the public shouldn’t have to br raising money for the NHS. It needs to be properly funded by taxes

Or what ⬆️ succinctly said.

Staff well-being areas + tea coffe etc should be a standard supplied feature IMO.

AllIwantforChristmas22 · 05/07/2023 08:54

littleripper · 05/07/2023 07:42

It was a grift which was perfect - so perfect - an anxious public, the NHS, WW2.

100%

all the elements that move the British public to donate!

Jongleterre · 05/07/2023 08:55

They're crooks.

butterpuffed · 05/07/2023 08:56

Plbrookes · 05/07/2023 08:05

Unbelievable that there are people set against the idea of a charity making life a bit more pleasant for nurses and patients. Do people genuinely have no compassion?

It isn't about compassion , it's about the fact that they said they were building an office for charities when they clearly weren't .

Stressedafff · 05/07/2023 08:57

It did my head in at the time I was bloody sick of hearing about it
I remember BBC’s top story being that he’d completed his 100th lap. Thought it was a con from the get go

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