DH & I both work full time, in well paid jobs, however, his role, particularly at the moment, means he has a LOT of free time throughout the day. Some days he might have a couple of hour long meetings, others he might do 2-3hrs work, and that's it.
He does all the cooking, and weekly online shop, I do the washing for us and our two kids (both sporty so tends to be a lot of sports kit to wash on top of school uniforms, etc.). The rest of the housework gets done as and when, but I'm starting to feel pretty resentful that he doesn't do more. I have to ask him to vacuum each day (we have dogs), despite me working all day, and him being sat in the garden all afternoon having done a call in the morning, and perhaps also been to the gym. He also complains about mess, but rather than just doing a quick tidy round each day, he'll just leave it...and then start complaining. We both clean the bathrooms, him probably slightly more frequently than me at the moment, but again, I have to ask. I do 75% of one of our DS's school and sport drop-offs/pick-ups (across 6 days a week), he does 100% of the other's - 2 days a week).
The thing that I hate the most is that when I do ask, it will always result in a row, and comments like "it's not my fault you have to work more hours than me".
I suppose the AIBU is, is it unreasonable of me to expect him to do more around the house due to his role only taking up 50% (at most!) of the hours mine does?
YANBU - DH should take on a bit more and do it without fuss
YABU - DH is right, and it's not his fault he doesn't have to work the same amount of hours