I know this is silly to put in an Aibu but
My partner expects me to do the cooking and cleaning all week, which I don't mind most times and do it. But he expects when he gets home that dinner is there for him. Sometimes I cook for everyone and save him some as he comes in later but sometimes I can't because if the kids are having something with chips or toast and beans for example I'm hardly gonna put that in the fridge for him later because that'll taste nasty and won't reheat properly.
The other week I felt so annoyed because I'd made a lovely roast and I said it would be ready by 3 but same day after I'd put it in oven he said he had a dentist app at 3, fair enough. So I delayed dinner for everyone. But after his app he was told he could only eat soft foods so the roast was void for him and he decided to have a protein shake instead (that he barked at me to make) few hours later he said he was hungry and took some tinned meatballs out the cupboard and asked me to make it with some pasta, I wasn't happy about doing this because if just sat down from washing the dinner bits up and tidying the kids toys but I did it anyway. Then when I dished it up he moaned at me because I didn't put any onion in with the meatballs.... yet he didn't ask me to do this!
Yesterday we are laying in bed and he grabs my hand saying he needs a rub... so I was expected to jack him off whilst I got nothing in return... this is ongoing I hate my sex life it's practically non existent, I don't think he's ever done any kind of foreplay on me which is just bizarre and ridiculous. We both initiate at times but tbh I'm fed up of not being pleases. We've been together 10 years and have 2 children...