I'll try keep it as short as possible. I got into a relationship a year ago and fell pregnant very quickly (already have a 18 and 14 year old) babies dad said if I didn't want to be with him and us live together as a family then he didn't want a part in babies life. Thought I would give it a try and he moved in with us but it never felt right as I've been on my own for a long time and was used to it. Fast forward to baby being born and he took no parental leave, she was born on the Saturday and he went back to work on the Monday and the following week went working away for 2 weeks so I was left on my own with her. In a way it seemed like he was bragging about how much money he was being paid and said he would be coming home with X amount in his bank as he weren't spending any money with working nights and sleeping through the day. He doesn't realise I still have his banking app on my phone so out of curiousity one night I checked how much money he had. Turns out it was less than £50 and he had been going out every day spending £30+ on meals and drinks and one week spent £575 on online gambling but I haven't said anything as he thinks I deleted his banking app (he put the app on my phone when he sold his phone). He got paid last friday just over £600, gave me £100 towards bills and by the Saturday morning he had 1p left in his account!! He was gambling all during the Friday night and up to 5am Saturday morning when he was supposed to be feeding our daughter, I was fuming (but couldn't say anything) seeing all this I had to make the decision to go back to work knowing that I can't rely on him.Our shifts work around eachother and my first shift was 4pm today. He came home at 3.35pm and I had to leave by 3.40pm he asked if he could chat with me but I said it'll have to wait until later as I can't be late for my first day back so he went to run a bath I said goodbye and off I went. My 14yo txt me saying did I know that he's packing his stuff and going away to Dundee to work so I rang him and asked what was going on and why didn't he tell me, turns out it was a lie and he was packing his stuff to leave me. He told my older children that we keep bickering so he's moving out for a bit but sent me a txt ending the relationship and blocked me on everything as soon as he walked out the door. As bad as it may seem I don't feel sad that he's left but now I'm left to try juggle a job, an 11 week old baby, keeping a house and making sure 2 teenagers are ok while he's off doing whatever he wants. Would anyone try and work on the relationship not for the sake of the baby or just walk away and be done?