It’s a long story.
I was in a relationship with this guy for 18months. He is separated from ex wife 8 years ago. He moved in my house 6 months later. A year into our relationship we talked about our future and I said it will make it easier and we can progress our relationship buying house together getting married if he start divorce proceedings. He agrees but never really does nothing about it so three months later I made it clear that I can’t be with a married man and even if he is not intending to get married to me yet I would prefer he get divorced as even to just buy a house together so fast forward 18months into the relationship he still hasn’t done nothing claiming he is very busy at work. So I said I can’t be with you anymore just go get divorce and come back then maybe we can carry with the relationship. Since he left the house 2 months ago. He sent a screenshot of all paperwork ready to start divorce process, we were in contact and him coming to see me every other day and suddenly not answering my call or text just disappeared. I was worried something happened to him but he just ghosted me. Can someone make me understand