Hi all,
I'm generally very bad before my period. Like - an angry, paranoid, worried mess.
I'm premenstral - full disclaimer.
Due to go out for the day with partner and children tomorrow. My children and his are fairly different in age. Mine love his, his are a bit indifferent but manage a few hours! Haven't seen him for a week as he's been away.
Today he text me saying his friend had invited him to the same place tomorrow. So - he'll be there. I don't particularly like the friend or his girlfriend but I have maintained that's OK and I will tolerate for his sake. Friend has before made comments about women being ruined by having babies and said something about mine and his girlfriends stomachs when drunk. Place is a swimming place and I was looking forward to a swim.
Friend has two children the same age as my partner. If they are there, partner's sons will want nothing to do with mine.
Now - I was upset. Said the dynamic of the day would be different and I was a bit sad about that. Also that I may not swim as self confidence will be low. Partner basically said that it's not his problem/fault and was a bit of a wanker if I'm honest. Have told him to go on his own (don't necessarily mean it just cross).
So basically - am I being a hormone filled twat that needs a head wobble or would you be upset too?! Don't actually know what to do but my rational brain is not currently connected so could do with the wrath of Mumsnet to tell me.