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[anziz]

I was with the father of my kids until Sunday. I figured out he had attempted to cheat and I said look I'll just ask the girl if you don't tell me.
I never did ask her anything it was more to get him to come clean.

But I think he ran to her to save it with her. I went to go check her profile and she was private. (Which is weird at the exact time I said I'll just ask her an hour later it had changed). So I followed and she accepted. Then today randomly she blocked me from viewing her stories (she went back public again which I knew from making a fake account when I suspected cheating) so I know she's blocked me from viewing stories.

Why did she do that? Why not just block me?

Is she reporting back whatever I do to him? I put up a story that was a women joking about how bad her kids dad was. I wonder if she's telling him and keeping following me to keep seeing my stuff

I think he's at the pub with her right now
Or have I let my imagination run wild? Did he maybe not even speak to her? Is he not at the pub with her. Or am I one of those crazy delusional people who still wants to see good in him?

He's blocked me since Monday when I called him out. Made no arrangements to see the kids. This is the second time this has happened. He disappeared for months last time but really seemed like he'd grown and changed and seem genuinely sorry. But I guess not

But did he actually run and save it with this girl? And she's blocked me from seeing her stories?

It's extremely annoying because this girl he attempted to cheat with did something very similar to my friend years ago. She had seen this guy roughly 3 months and he was friends with her (apparently kids dad was only friends too) and my friends ex boyfriend had tried with her before seeing my friend. She said no I only see you as a friend. But for in the way of their relationship non stop. And stalked my friends Instagram account. My friend told her boyfriend and he broke up with her pretty much rhere and then realising she was stalking my friend thinking she wanted him.

She's a nightmare this girl. Incredibly slimy just like the kids dad. They are perfect for each other

But all I keep thinking is did he run to her to save it with her whilst blocking me?
Why has she blocked me from her stories and kept me?

@Mummy2022FT he has never once asked how the kids are ever. He doesn't ask. If I don't message him to see them hee never do it and now he's just blocking me and not asking at all

@anziz

@Mummy2022FT he has never once asked how the kids are ever. He doesn't ask. If I don't message him to see them hee never do it and now he's just blocking me and not asking at all

Ok, in that case I'd advise you to prepare yourself for the worst. If you say to yourself 'I am never going to contact this man again' then with that you are also saying 'my children won't see their dad again' (that's his doing, not yours)

You literally have to come to terms with this heartbreaking realisation

I know I want my DS to look at me when he grows up and know i walked away bcos It was the right thing to do. Because what would that say about me if I stayed in a 'relationship' where I was being treated with no respect or basic consideration.

Think about this. You can do this. Good luck xx

Step away from social media. You're tying yourself up in knots over it and getting hurt. It's not worth it.

Focus on moving forward, if he doesn't bother with the kids he's a prick anyway - who would want him. Ring the CSA if he won't agree to child support between you.

Keep busy, see your friends, see your family. Leave them to it.