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Staggered start is illegal exclusion

239 replies

HapptobeTHATparent · 30/06/2023 22:10

DD turns 5 on 2nd September. Just received her school starter paperwork and it's a staggered start, so won't actually start full time until 16th September. No home visits so no need for staggered start. 26 children already attend the school nursery full time.

AIBU to accuse the school of illegal exclusion by not allowing DD and the 25 others already attending school (nursery) full time (plus any new starters who wish to start full time straight away), to return to school on the 1st September like the rest of the school.

State maintained school (not academy).

Slightly tounge in cheek, but also hoping for some links to documents I can quote at the school.

OP posts:
Elephantsdontlikechocolate · 02/07/2023 10:29

anqlqpei · 30/06/2023 23:02

Come on OP, if you're really a teacher you know you're being completely OTT. Just approach them nicely and ask if it is possible for her to attend full time from the start, no need to start throwing terms around like things being illegal 🙄. Also a Biology secondary teacher with a child in reception and amazingly I manage to communicate with their school without being a bit of a twit.

But may be, because she is a teacher, she knows she's not being OTT.

TheHoover · 02/07/2023 10:38

OP being a teacher is highly relevant as teachers cannot take leave except in school holidays. How on earth could two teacher parents take the time off to accommodate some of the more ridiculous settling regimes if there is no family nearby?

AndIKnewYouMeantIt · 02/07/2023 10:54

TheHoover · 02/07/2023 10:38

OP being a teacher is highly relevant as teachers cannot take leave except in school holidays. How on earth could two teacher parents take the time off to accommodate some of the more ridiculous settling regimes if there is no family nearby?

My friend works for the LA in education, in an managerial admin role, and is also not allowed leave in September!

Parker231 · 02/07/2023 11:16

ohsohopeful · 02/07/2023 08:47

I'm a Reception teacher and we do run a staggered start, though it is significantly shorter than some I've seen here. In the first week (Weds - Fri due to inset days) children attend half days on the weds and Thurs in two groups of 15, then on the Friday everyone is in together and stays for lunch. It has been rare that any child needs more than this, however it does give us chance to very quickly learn everyone's names, teach them some basic routines in smaller groups (eg how to line up, signals for tidy up time, more recently a lot more work has been needed on sharing/kind hands/manners etc). Our ratios are quite different to nursery/preschool and it's important to get off to a good start and ensure that every child feels welcome and 'seen' by their teacher. I'm sure not everyone would agree but it really is surprisingly tricky to do this with 30 4 year olds all with a range of needs and setting experiences.

Having said that, if it was a real struggle for the three days, we would take a child full time. If every parent requested it we would need to temporarily increase staffing to ensure children receive the school start they deserve, which at the moment would genuinely be impossible as we don't have enough TAs to cover our 1:1s throughout the school and support other children with SEND (who also deserve a smooth transition to their new classes). Tough balancing act, but I like to think parents work with us in the best interests of their children.

Definitely think about approaching the school/EYFS lead reasonably, no one will turn your request down but successful home school partnerships do work both ways.

Some of your comments are concerning - do you not advise parents of their rights for children to start full time from day one or is a staggered start presented as the only option?

Parker231 · 02/07/2023 11:18

doorstopper123 · 02/07/2023 09:00

In the nicest possible way, It's just tough.

Most schools do this . Apparently it's for the child's benefit

It isn’t tough - if a parent wants their DC to start full time from day one, the school can’t refuse to provide full time education from the start. It’s not optional by the school

lavenderlou · 02/07/2023 11:38

DH and I are both teachers and it was hideous doing part-time starts. DC1I was very lucky - her old nursery took her and even picked her up halfway through the day. DC2 the nursery took her but wouldn't collect so I had to go out from school in the middle of the day, collect her and take her to nursery. They were going to do this for two weeks but then after a couple of days they decided the class were so settled they would just let them start full time. That was much easier but I was a bit 😠 at the two weeks of additional nursery costs I'd stumped up for unnecessarily.

As PP have said though, they have to provide a statutory full time place from the first day of term so just inform the school you will be sending them full time.

Chocolateship · 02/07/2023 11:46

Thankfully we didn't have this, everyone started full time in Sept unless they opted for a staggered start. We did have settling in sessions beforehand but these were on different days and different times so most could attend which was great.

HapptobeTHATparent · 02/07/2023 12:14

Phineyj · 02/07/2023 07:27

www.kent.gov.uk/education-and-children/schools/school-age if you scroll down to "When Children Start School" on this then it confirms that you are correct, legally you can send your child full time from the start of Reception, whatever the school's normal arrangements.

This is not a well known fact (schools often prefer not to share it!) and there is always a lot of misinformation on threads like this.

I wouldn't use the term "illegal exclusion though".

Thank you for this.

OP posts:
lanthanum · 02/07/2023 15:34

I think that it's worth challenging schools every so often on how they manage the start of reception. Demographics are different for every school, but they're also changing over time. In our area, there are rather fewer full-time SAHMs than there used to be, and that means more parents for whom the staggered starts are problematic. We also have a new nursery in the area which runs 8-6 rather than 9-3, so probably rather more children who are used to longer days, and who aren't already signed up with a childminder.

I think it makes sense for schools to review regularly whether the benefits of a staggered start still outweigh the disadvantages, for their local population.

At least one of our local nurseries will do a lunchtime pick-up from the reception classes in September. This solves the parents' childcare problems, but in terms of settling, the children are still doing a full day, but in two settings. For those who weren't at that nursery, they're also having to get used to two new settings at once. It's difficult to see that it's benefitting those children to have a staggered start.

I don't think most people mind a little bit of staggering - having a few children start each day of the first week, but we had four weeks of half days (and a lot of grandparents on extended visits).

LolaSmiles · 02/07/2023 15:47

lanthanum
I agree with you.

It's also worth schools considering the impact on families with multiple children.

Is it really good for the family to have a parent doing 4 different school runs a day to accommodate an extended part time education that they haven't requested, more if breakfast clubs/wraparound/enrichments are involved?

The idea that households have one adult at home who can spend most of the day traipsing back and forth to school whilst pottering at home doing odd jobs in between is something from several decades ago

ohsohopeful · 02/07/2023 16:26

@Parker231

We actually do advise parents that their child is entitled to a full time start, but we also say that in our experience children benefit greatly from 2 days in smaller groups getting to know their teacher, completely new surroundings and new friends. We also offer an extended transition period beyond the first three days if that's what parents feel is best for their child. Interestingly, I've been taken up on the second option but never the first. It probably does depend entirely on a school's demographic. I'd be prepared to try an intake with no staggered start, as a previous poster suggested, it's good to challenge long-held assumptions and I like to think that most schools want to work with parents to make transition periods as successful as possible.

Comefromaway · 03/07/2023 11:11

When my daughter started school (2 form entry) it was full time straight away or the option of half days for the first week. Not one parent chose the half days.

StormInaDcup99 · 03/07/2023 11:15

swimminginthesun · 30/06/2023 23:49

That’s really interesting. How do they structure the classes? At the start of the school year (January?) there might only be one or two kids who have turned 5. Do they mix them with the kids who started the previous year? And then do you get kids who start in the last week of term and then immediately get a long summer holiday? Must be a challenge to teach with kids trickling in each week. Is it play based for the first year?

Ì honestly can't remember
.....my kids are now early 20s so it's a bit of a blur! I'm from UK originally so it did seem v odd to me. I guess it was in many ways easier fir the teacher to manage and the more 'established' kids helped the new ones integrate. The kids loved having new playmates every Monday lol

Troublewithlichen · 30/08/2025 07:57

You are correct in the fact that your child can legally start on the 2nd. Everyone should also be aware that your cannot use the government funded hours with a childcare provider for those days at the beginning of the autumn term if your child starts reception that term. You may receive an unexpected invoice.

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