So firstly I'm in hospital recovering from an operation so feeling a bit fed up .
Had visitors and lovely messages and feeling the love . But obv lots of time to think .
I was friendly with another mum friend of my Dd aged 15 .let's call her V. Girls not particularly friendly anymore , no fall outs but just drifted . We were couple friends with another couple for many years ,camping trips , days out ,holidays etc .
When Vs mum died suddenly her Dd came to our house one night after school for years to help with after school
/ work commitments. No problem . We were friends and I was ok with this .
Girls then went to different schools .
The friendship between us has drifted too although my husband and her husband still get together regularly, drinks , walks , weekend breaks etc .
I give her daughter a lift to sports practice one night a week she brings my Dd home though I don't need her too it was arranged by husbands and I drive out of my way while she drives past our house . I also have a younger to take to different clubs that night so it's a tight squeeze. I'm not dependent on help to drop back .
Anyway I'm feeling pretty hurt because I've heard nothing from her , no good luck nothing !
Last night sports coach cancelled because of injury . She sent a message saying hope he got better soon ,wishing speedy recovery etc
I've been in hospital 2 bloody weeks and nothing .
I've told my husband that he shouldn't volunteer me to help until checking it's not going to muck things up .
And I'm tempted to say that I feel used by helping this couple when I don't even get a text saying get well soon .
My husband works away in the week so he can't do clubs etc .
Am I being too sensitive