Last year DH and I needed some work doing on the house and we also planned to take a holiday. Both came to about the same amount and so we said the easiest way to do it was that he would pay for one and I would pay for the other. I put the holiday on the credit card and took about 8 months to pay it off, I’d assumed he had done the same. Today he’s been in a foul mood and it’s come out that he took a loan out to pay for the work.
This is where is gets a bit more complicated…I already paid for some of the work being done as I had to collect a load of the materials but I didn’t ask for it back, we both benefitted from the work etc. He has been given a lot of money by family over the years which he has put into lots of different things, again I don’t really see any of it. I do earn a bit more than him but I keep my money quite close as he’s awful with money, it literally runs through his fingers like water! However I didn’t know about the loan and I wonder if I should pay for this as well.