So just a bit of back ground, my ex cheated and left me for another woman !
Now he loves with her, sees out kids 6-7 hours a week sometimes only 3 hours a week. Kids live with me full time. No overnights with him
He was abusive to me in EVERY aspect
So our oldest daughter turns 17 on Sunday,
when she had had her school prom, he took over, did her hair, took her prom dress shopping with his wife (the woman he left me for) and he told her prom got to take all her pictures and they didn't let me have any say at all !!
Now our second daughter turned 16 and left school now, due her prom in July. He's doing the same again, telling her he needs to take her prom dress shopping!!! Even though my daughter wants me to go, I feel like he's robbing me of these special moments. If my daughter tells him she wants to do it with me he uses the fact he's for a car and money so he's better at that whereas I don't have a car and have limited funds. But I can still get her a nice dress!!
Now I'll miss out on my second daughters prom whilst his wife walks in and gets to take over !!!!!!
Am I being unreasonable to be upset?
Our son is 7 but when he has his prom I wouldn't stop him taking him for his first suit!!
It's now about him taking her, it's about him not even involving me or allowing my Daughters to 'want' me there
She's wants me there
It's his way or no way!!