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So are these school shoes or trainers

422 replies

Shoesortrainers · 24/06/2023 07:04

School have published their amended policy from Sept. This style is showed as unacceptable as they apparently trainers.

Er no they are school shoes and they
are the ONLY ones that fit my wide footed , high instep child. Believe me we’ve tried and tried over the years. They are just like me unfortunately. Plus sensory issues too.

School shoes must also be black and of polishable leather (they are!)

School refusing to budge. In fact the teacher dealing with uniform is being very rude and obstructive.

So Mumsnet are these shoes or trainers.

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soundsys · 24/06/2023 11:37

School shoes!

Demigold · 24/06/2023 11:43

YoucancallmeKAREN · 24/06/2023 11:30

A uniform policy may not make your children get A*s but it will prepare them for the world of work where they may have to follow a dress code. It also makes them realise there is such a thing as discipline and rules are rules. Many have no understanding of discipline and rules.

I was at school over 30 years ago and my school didn’t care.
Personally I think a uniform should be as cheap and comfortable as possible. If you have to wear a dress code, why wear one before you have too.

Rhondaa · 24/06/2023 11:48

'A uniform policy may not make your children get As but it will prepare them for the world of work where they may have to follow a dress code'

A dress code is fine. Teachers concentrating on checking shoes when they should be doing their job is not.

Any secondary teachers out there? how do A'level students manage to be disciplined and do well in A'levels when no-one is trying to tell them if the fastening on their shoes is correct or not?!

LakieLady · 24/06/2023 11:51

LolaSmiles · 24/06/2023 08:26

From your updates it seems the issues with this school, and with the reference to others being owned by the same people, the academy chain are much bigger than a uniform policy.

Individual teachers in that sort of chain have no say on the uniform.

In your situation I'd consider some of the other shoes options posters have suggested, or get a doctor note for the shoes you have, and would probably try to get some advice on advocacy for the bigger issues.

I'd happily contribute to a crowdfunding appeal if someone was to challenge this nonsense in the courts.

WibblyWobblyLane · 24/06/2023 12:08

Rhondaa · 24/06/2023 11:48

'A uniform policy may not make your children get As but it will prepare them for the world of work where they may have to follow a dress code'

A dress code is fine. Teachers concentrating on checking shoes when they should be doing their job is not.

Any secondary teachers out there? how do A'level students manage to be disciplined and do well in A'levels when no-one is trying to tell them if the fastening on their shoes is correct or not?!

You are wrong. I am a teacher and it is my job to check the uniform of my form every morning and direct them to the HoY if there are any infringements. I would definitely get pulled up on it and find myself in trouble if I let things slide; as a PP mentioned, teachers in a MAT have very little power in these decisions.

6th formers, much like the Europeans PPs mentioned, have the knowledge that if they fail, they'll have to repeat the year/get kicked out. Most of them want to be there and are there to unlock some kind of pathway, and those that would have caused issues in lower school would be the ones who failed to secure the entry requirements for 6th form.

I don't actually agree with uniform, but you see what uniform posts come up on MN the number of people who feel it's a good thing. I can't see it changing. And parents, often incorrectly, judge a school's potential based on the look of their current students. Since a school's income is based on the number of students they have on roll, uniform is another recruitment tool.

yipeeyiyay · 24/06/2023 12:16

ApplesInTheSunshine · 24/06/2023 07:07

They’re trainers, just black ones. The school is right and YABU.

In what world are they a trainer. Trainers are sports shoes. I can't imagine what sport you would wear those. They don't even have a trainer tread. These are clearly casual school shoes as opposed to formal ones but they are shoes not trainers.

sevenbyseven · 24/06/2023 12:20

They're clearly shoes not trainers. However our local secondary school requires laces not velcro.

WonderingWanda · 24/06/2023 12:27

@coffeecupsandwaxmelts my post which you took it upon yourself to tell me off about and suggest that I should rtwt was on page 5, literally 3 posts after a post from the op stating that the school have called these shoes trainers to her.

The school have called this shoe a trainer to me.
Compared them to Lonsdale and adidas. I looked at him and said they are nothing like it unless I need an eye test?!

Maybe you should just worry about your own posts and let me worry about mine, then I won't have cause to get snippy with you!

coffeecupsandwaxmelts · 24/06/2023 12:28

WonderingWanda · 24/06/2023 12:27

@coffeecupsandwaxmelts my post which you took it upon yourself to tell me off about and suggest that I should rtwt was on page 5, literally 3 posts after a post from the op stating that the school have called these shoes trainers to her.

The school have called this shoe a trainer to me.
Compared them to Lonsdale and adidas. I looked at him and said they are nothing like it unless I need an eye test?!

Maybe you should just worry about your own posts and let me worry about mine, then I won't have cause to get snippy with you!

Blimey, who pissed on your chips? 😂

Rhondaa · 24/06/2023 12:52

'You are wrong. I am a teacher and it is my job to check the uniform of my form every morning and direct them to the HoY if there are any infringements. I would definitely get pulled up on it and find myself in trouble if I let things slide; as a PP mentioned, teachers in a MAT have very little power in these decisions.'

Well challenge it then! You know, like if you had to work without a break or something. Make changes. Starting with, barring a smart dress code, it should not be a teacher's business if shoes have velcro or laces. It shouldn't be your business if trousers are skinny or straight as long as the right colour and smart.

Go on, stand up for teachers wasting their time with this nonsense and try to make a change.

Enko · 24/06/2023 12:53

Doggymummar · 24/06/2023 07:59

Yes but they wear wellies or walking boots in the winter for the walk to school and change at school, same as you would do walking to work.

I love near 5 schools I've never seen this happen. (By near I mean I live on the road of one have a further 2 within 1/4of a mile and a further 2 within a mile. I see a LOT of school kids. This is not the norm.

I often see girls in ballet pumps in December in one of the coffee shops with wet feet. They have taken the shows off due to it.

LolaSmiles · 24/06/2023 13:06

Well challenge it then! You know, like if you had to work without a break or something. Make changes. Starting with, barring a smart dress code, it should not be a teacher's business if shoes have velcro or laces. It shouldn't be your business if trousers are skinny or straight as long as the right colour and smart.

Go on, stand up for teachers wasting their time with this nonsense and try to make a change.

Teachers regularly don't get breaks.
They're also routinely given tasks and directed beyond directed time.

Your standard classroom teacher is usually half a dozen rungs down from the head.
The head is subject to the MAT that the school is part of.

In some cases the head is actually a head of school now, not a head teacher. Usually this is because the MAT has an executive headteacher who had the final say on everything.

In some trusts there's a whole tier of executive leaders (who in my opinion spend a lot of time floating around school to school in their navy suits with power stances and haven't been in a classroom for years but they live and breathe the right philosophy for the MAT) who decide most policies for dozens of schools.

In schools in MATs the role of the governing body is also different and they're more of a local body but don't have the same freedoms as LA school governing bodies from what I've seen.

The idea that your average Joe teacher should put themselves out of a job because some parents want to argue about their child's right to wear skinny trousers for school is naive at best, goady at worst.

Harrypewter · 24/06/2023 13:36

However parents are NOT in the main aware of the hierarchial structures of the school system. Neither are they personally under direct control of this governance.

Rather than formal rigidity schools need to relax and modernise.
The problem is the English is well known for adherence to pomposity.

YoucancallmeKAREN · 24/06/2023 13:45

yipeeyiyay · 24/06/2023 12:16

In what world are they a trainer. Trainers are sports shoes. I can't imagine what sport you would wear those. They don't even have a trainer tread. These are clearly casual school shoes as opposed to formal ones but they are shoes not trainers.

Shoes have a separate heel, these don't, they are flat soled, therefore not shoes

LolaSmiles · 24/06/2023 13:48

Harrypewter
They might not know the details, but it's not rocket science that your average science teacher doesn't make the whole school policy and that a random teacher deciding not to follow school policies is likely to cause an issue.

I don't disagree with you on uniform. I go back and forward on it. I'd like it to modernise on the whole, but experience has also shown me that there's a large minority of parents who think any rules don't apply to their children so even a simple dress code would have them picking a fight with the school.

WibblyWobblyLane · 24/06/2023 13:56

Rhondaa · 24/06/2023 12:52

'You are wrong. I am a teacher and it is my job to check the uniform of my form every morning and direct them to the HoY if there are any infringements. I would definitely get pulled up on it and find myself in trouble if I let things slide; as a PP mentioned, teachers in a MAT have very little power in these decisions.'

Well challenge it then! You know, like if you had to work without a break or something. Make changes. Starting with, barring a smart dress code, it should not be a teacher's business if shoes have velcro or laces. It shouldn't be your business if trousers are skinny or straight as long as the right colour and smart.

Go on, stand up for teachers wasting their time with this nonsense and try to make a change.

I would be managed out in a heartbeat. I have a mortgage to pay and I refuse to fight a fight that would result in a dismissal when people still blame teachers for all the woes in the profession because it would be pointless. The PP who got jumped on for saying the OP will risk getting managed out was spot on (unfortunately). Certain MATs are very good at getting rid of anyone who doesn't toe the line and play ball.

Hesma · 24/06/2023 14:02

@IsThisReallyPC yes, in my school shoes must be leather (or fake leather) and polishable. Same at my last school

MariaVT65 · 24/06/2023 14:05

I have to be honest and say i’m sceptical about teachers being managed out if they challenge the uniform policy. We have a known lack of teachers in the UK, surely if all the teachers stood up together, the school can’t get rid of all of you?

SeeingSpots · 24/06/2023 14:05

MariaVT65 · 24/06/2023 14:05

I have to be honest and say i’m sceptical about teachers being managed out if they challenge the uniform policy. We have a known lack of teachers in the UK, surely if all the teachers stood up together, the school can’t get rid of all of you?

This is woefully naive....

MariaVT65 · 24/06/2023 14:12

SeeingSpots · 24/06/2023 14:05

This is woefully naive....

Maybe so. Are you seriously telling me if every teacher in a school wrote to the governers and said to be more time efficient, they will no longer be enforcing strict school shoe policy, and will only be taking action if a shoe is seen to be unsafe (eg flip flops), in order to be more time efficient and prioritise education, they would all be managed out/asked to leave?

I’m genuinely interested in how this would turn out if someone would like to explain to me.

WibblyWobblyLane · 24/06/2023 14:15

MariaVT65 · 24/06/2023 14:12

Maybe so. Are you seriously telling me if every teacher in a school wrote to the governers and said to be more time efficient, they will no longer be enforcing strict school shoe policy, and will only be taking action if a shoe is seen to be unsafe (eg flip flops), in order to be more time efficient and prioritise education, they would all be managed out/asked to leave?

I’m genuinely interested in how this would turn out if someone would like to explain to me.

And if my grandmother had a penis she would be my grandfather. But if clauses don't reflect reality.

MariaVT65 · 24/06/2023 14:19

WibblyWobblyLane · 24/06/2023 14:15

And if my grandmother had a penis she would be my grandfather. But if clauses don't reflect reality.

I was genuinely asking for some insightful clarification, but thanks.

StarchySturgess1 · 24/06/2023 14:35

Nicecow · 24/06/2023 07:18

It doesn't actually matter what we think, sorry. School says no.

Ah yes. That higher power that must never be questioned. The School.

Emotionalsupportviper · 24/06/2023 14:53

Shoesortrainers · 24/06/2023 10:21

We had a school malfunction one day with eldest. After school Went straight to Clarks and Asda. The only shoe outlets available. No joy.

Emailed school. Will get done on Saturday. Need to send in PE trainers for one day. Received reply that evening.

Will be in isolation until in school shoes or agreement to wear a loan pair. This was for a SEN child who they knew was struggling academically and socially. The loan pair were worn. He struggled all day. Hated them. Sensory issues. Was disruptive cos of it. Did the school care. Nope as long as unauthorised footwear not in circulation. They care more about appearances than education and I’ve told them this.

The loan pair were worn. He struggled all day.

The absolute feckers! Wearing "loan shoes" except for very short periods (eg the duration of a bowling game) is inappropriate anyway. Shoes mould to the feet that have worn them - those shoes will have been particularly uncomfortable for your child.

IsThisReallyPC · 24/06/2023 14:54

Hesma · 24/06/2023 14:02

@IsThisReallyPC yes, in my school shoes must be leather (or fake leather) and polishable. Same at my last school

Fake leather👍