To be so annoyed at my supposed 'best friend' for completely betraying me????

[mumblesmummy]

I was last to join a big group of lasses after school and we always had a good crack. Long story short, they were all REAL bitches (it rubbed off on me if I'm honest)and they all fell out. I was still friends with most of them and they always came to me for everything and pretty much used me as I had a house on my own and they didn't. One of the lasses was who I will call Lisa for the sake of this post. Lisa fell out with the group and went off to be a girlfriend and became a mummy and got a big posh house, and basically grew up and did the best out of them.

I finished uni, fell out with the lasses coz couldn't cope with the bitching anymore and didn't want it affecting my relationship, settled down, got engaged, got pregnant, got nice house etc etc.

So I figured I'd have even more in common now with Lisa and so i made an effort to see her quite a bit and things. Then didn't hear from her for ages and then she txt and said she was ill so she wouldn't meet me incase she passed me a bug while I'm pregnant.

I want to meet up with her to ask her to be my baby's God mum.

So next thing, I look on their facebooks and find she's been going out with them, meeting up with them, putting 'love ya' on the ends of her msgs to them. She ALWAYS slags them off and says she hates them and now she's like their best friend. Even ones she had REAL nasty grudges with in the past.

Now she's totally ignored my txts.

I've only just got out of that bitchy, tarty scene, and thought we'd be even closer now we'd both have babies and have loads in common. But she seems to want to go back to being tarty and bitchy and nasty!!

I'm not sure I should even ask her to be Godmum now.

They're really not people whose opinions are worth much, are they?

You're right to avoid them. Don't even have the smallest encounter with them.

Be with positive people. People who don't feel the need to slag off, attack or undermine others. It's the very least you deserve.

mumblesmummy you are not to worry about these girls. Leave them where they are, in the past, a bunch of mean girls if you ask me. Walk tall when you see them, you dont have anything to be ashamed of, a beautiful baby bump, its all about confidence, believe in yourself and others will follow. Sweet dreams

Sorry - my post wasn't very nice last night

They sound like a bunch of absolute cows - definately leave them behind and make some new ones. People like that aren't worth bothering with. I made a concerted effort to drop everyone I went to school with when I left because they were a group of nasty bitches. Am so much happier without them in my life and I think you will be too.

I completely agree with Colas post and tbh honest I wouldn't worry about your relationship with your friend...I had a friend and we faded and came back together again that happens...she sounds a bit 2-faced but most of us have been at some point she'll probably come to her senses soon enough...just avoid those sad cowbags and concerntrate on friends that make you feel happy and secure... when you are pregnant things can feel a little out of proportion anyway well they did for me..I suggest in the meantime you go spoil yourself and your bump!... in the end things always have a way of working out

Thanks everyone. Feel so much better today. I'm going to lunch with some of my proper friends so I'm sure I'll be over it by tea time!! It's a shame but I suppose these things happen.

I definately want to steer clear of them as they purposely try to intimidate me if they see me which really annoys my DP (especially as he's older so obviously he's past all things like that).

Thanks again